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Q: I'm not sure if residue is the right word but I took a sticker off a plastic thing of mine and the stickeyness of the sticker refuses to come off. There's no paper on it, just the stickyness and I can't figure out how to get it off. It keeps getting things stuck to it and making it look bad. It's a little cigar case thing that one of my friends gave to me. It's all plastic so I can't burn the stickyness off. Any ideas on how I can get it off?
I'd try rinsing it under some water.

Q: there's this gurl her name is amanda and she keeps harassing my friend samantha on myspace... there families don't like eachother and fight with eacother... and she gave smatha a bruise on her arm... i told this gurl to stop bothering her but now she started cussing at me and stuff and i don't want to have to tell my mom i have a myspace so don't give me advice telling me i should tell my mom... so what should we do?
Tell a counselor at school or a trusted adult.
I would tell my parents, even if they WOULD kick me off of myspace. If you don't like your friend being bullied, you need to stand up for yourself.

Hope I helped.
(:

Q: I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?
I am 14 and haven't had sex. I'd have to say 18. that way you are old enough to make all yer own decisions (:

Q: i have a cell phone but the texting cost 10 cents each message and i was wonderin if anybody has a phone that has free texting and wat company u have and how much it cost u a month
I have a Sprint phone, and I have unlimited texting. $10 a month (:

Q: 14-F

last night around 2am. i was sleeping on the couch because my room gets very cold. well right next to my house is 4 large peak windows. well two kids smashed them with baseball bats. it was the scariest thing. i was covered in glass. i didn't get hurt but i was so shocken up that i threw up and i could not stop shaking. now im terrified to go back to sleep. it took me 3½ hours to try to get back to sleep. the reason they smashed them was because my brother 18, got into an arguement with this kid and the kid wanted to fight with my brother but my brother wouldn't fight him. so they took it out on my windows. i just kind of stare. i've been quite depressed for a little bit of time now and after that i feel worse. i just don't want to move or do anything. i dont know what to do. i'm still shaking and can't stop crying. what can i do. please help.
You should tell your parents what they did (if they don't know already)
Try to talk to your parents or friends to learn how to calm down. Then, if that doesn't work, try seeing a counselor.

Hope I helped, darling.


Q: I am female, 23 years old and my boyfriend 22. After almost 2 years of relationship, my boyfriend called me ugly. What can I do or what can I say?
Was this in a fight or just for fun?
Let me know so I can help you.

Q: My friend is not really bipolar, but she acts like it. One day she will be nice and funny to me and everything will be good then a few days later she acts totally different like doesnt talk to me as much and stuff this happens alot What should I do?
It's not entirely her fault. Even if she IS bipolar, there's nothing she can do to help it. It could me hormones or PMSing. Just sit her down and NICELY ask her if she's upset about something. She'll understand.


Q: My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg

I'll rate 5s for all answers.
She is NOT ugly AT ALL! She's GORGEOUS.

Q: ok i need to know if this is considered cheating...I am "cake" and one of my guy friends is "d". I talked to him and I know he likes me.

[21:02] Cake: hey
[21:02] d: hi
[21:03] Cake: how's it goin?
[21:03] davis9088: pretty good
[21:03] Cake: thats good
[21:04] d: yea i guess
[21:05] Cake: :P
[21:05] d: i need a hug
[21:06] Cake: aww sry
[21:06] Cake: *hug*
[21:07] Cake: wish i could hug you but i can't really have people over right now
[21:07] Cake: so thats gonna have to work
[21:07] Cake: haha
[21:07] d: what
[21:07] Cake: *hug*
[21:10] Cake: so how's it going with that one chick that turns 18 soon
[21:10] d: good
[21:10] Cake: cool
[21:11] Cake: so you guys are gonna hook up soon maybe?
[21:11] d: umm what do you mean
[21:12] Cake: you said there was some chick that you were talking to at your lunch break
[21:12] Cake: did you guys hookup?
[21:12] d: she won't fuck me
[21:12] Cake: oh
[21:13] d: shes a good girl
[21:13] Cake: so is that all you are lookin for haha
[21:13] d: n
[21:13] d: i don't care that i'm not gunna get laid
[21:13] d: thats kinda why i like her
[21:13] Cake: thats cool
[21:14] d: and if i ever do get to have sex with her awesome
[21:14] Cake: i feel neglected
[21:15] d: why
[21:15] Cake: my boyfriends playing WoW
[21:15] Cake: :P
[21:15] Cake: and he' like hardly talking to me
[21:15] d: whats wow
[21:15] d: never mind
[21:15] Cake: World of Warcraft
[21:15] Cake: oh ok
[21:16] d: well i'm talking kinda
[21:16] d: i still wanna see ya
[21:16] Cake: yeah i have to like pounce on him to get him to talk to me
[21:16] d: punc eon me
[21:17] Cake: yeah but pouncing leads to much more
[21:17] d: hmmm
[21:17] d: i'd like that
[21:17] Cake: silly boy
[21:18] d: so do it
[21:19] Cake: what's your favorite part of sex?
[21:19] d: i'm not sure
[21:19] d: i love it when the girl fels great
[21:20] d: how she asks for more
[21:20] Cake: usually guys are very sure haha
[21:20] d: i just love it
[21:21] d: i dunno why
[21:21] d: i just wihs i could nut up in her
[21:21] d: instead of worry about pullin out
[21:22] d: gosh
[21:22] Cake: yea
[21:22] d: i so wanna do it now
[21:22] d: your so mean
[21:22] d: why doyou have to get me hard
[21:22] Cake: i was just curious
[21:22] d: do yo like to be eaten out
[21:22] Cake: nuh uh
[21:23] d: so yo jus tlike se
[21:23] d: sex
[21:23] Cake: many kinds
[21:23] d: tell me what you like best
[21:23] Cake: humm
[21:23] Cake: thats acually pretty hard
[21:23] d: hmm
[21:24] Cake: i like it when he's first putting it in
[21:24] d: do you like having sex with or without a condom
[21:24] Cake:it's way better without a condom
[21:24] d: so a girl can tell
[21:24] Cake: yeah
[21:25] d: so when could i see what its like
[21:25] d: i wanna have sex with you
[21:25] Cake: you couldn't handle me
[21:25] Cake: haha
[21:25] d: are you sure
[21:26] Cake: no
[21:26] d: y ou couldn't handle me
[21:26] Cake: but i know i can't have sex with you
[21:26] d: why can't you
[21:26] Cake: boyfriend
[21:26] d: how big is he
[21:26] Cake: big enough for me
[21:26] d: soo
[21:26] Cake: i've never measured him before
[21:27] Cake: i dunno
[21:27] Cake: pretty big
[21:27] d: what happens if we had sex
[21:28] Cake: hum
[21:28] Cake: i dunno
[21:28] Cake: i would end up telling him
[21:28] d: well thats cool
Honestly, I don't think you needed to talk about your boyfriend in a situation like this. I think you could have changed the subject. It's not cheating, cause it wasn't physical. If you love your boyfriend, don't talk about him like this.

Q: well i was wondering if i am about to start my period cause when i wiped myself there was a rusty color on the toilet paper. and there was a rusty colored little spot on my undies. im scared please help. im 13.
It is possible you may be starting your period.
I would get some pads just in case.
Try to go one more night w/o pads. If you wake up, and the color is darker, 90% you started it.

Q: ok....so I am gonna make it short. I have a girl that I know likes me and lets call her K. and then, heres the problem I know another girl that likes me and lets call her B. so what should I do..I also like both of them...advicenators...Help ME
Who do you like more?
Who do you think would work better in a "relationship?"

Pick the one who you think is better for you.

Q: Hello I am a 13 year old girl and I don't know what to do. I like this guy ALOT and I was going to tell him that I liked him but I found out he was going to ask out this really nice girl out. I don't know if I should tell him or not now. If I don't I'll regret it. But if I do tell him it might reck his relationship with the girl. He could change his feelings or something... I don't know what to do...
Has he asked the girl out yet?
If so, I wouldn't tell him anything. I'd still talk to him though.
If not, GO FOR IT!

Q: So I babysitted for the first time last week. This kids really quiet and all he does is want to play soccer. Well we got really bored after playing sports for a while. Now that I'm babysitting offically for him I dont know how to entertain him.

Does anyone have games to play that involves like running around/being active?

or just games in general? :]
I agree with Hide and Seek. I play that CONSTANTLY when I babysit. You could try tag?
Or, there's a game where you hide something somewhere and they have to try to find it as fast as they can. Try these (:

Q: ok so im 13/f and my friend (13/f) goes out with like every boy in the school and i know you like cant go out with your best friends ex but shes like getting them and dumping them. what can i do?
Talk to her about how you feel! I mean, how is it possible for her to dump a guy if she does it with EVERYONE in the school, and have you not date him?
Tell her about it.

Q: I usually have a clear clomplexion but this morning i woke up and i had a huge pimple right in the middle of my forehead. It feels like it's a knot and it hurts sooo bad! How can I get it not to be sooo swollen and to clear up really fast I have a date tomorrow!
Try to pop it using your fingernails. Once you do that, rinse your face THOROUGHLY with soap or face wash & rinse. It will go down (:

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lolzmellie
Hey guys, I'm Mellie. I live in Arizona and go to High School. I'm really nice and LOVE to give advice. I love Elvis Presley, and oldie music

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