ok....so I am gonna make it short. I have a girl that I know likes me and lets call her K. and then, heres the problem I know another girl that likes me and lets call her B. so what should I do..I also like both of them...advicenators...Help ME
MelLeDisko answered Sunday October 29 2006, 10:16 pm: I would try going on a date with each of them and just see how it goes. Try to get to know them better, find common interests with them, see who understands your jokes better, etc. Basically who are you just more compatible with.
Then after the dates, just kind of write out a list of the pros and cons of each girl. I know that sounds a little unrespectful of their feelings and kind of just laying all their flaws and good parts about them out on a piece of paper, but it might help you decide better. And just see who have more feelings for, who you could hang out with more, yet still be romantic with, who'd get your jokes more, whose more of an outgoing type of person, who'd get along with your family, friends, everything. Who could basically have a wonderful time with & know you'll have a good relationship together.
Just don't let time progress and leave them both sitting there, waiting for you to choose one of them. That'll only hurt the one you don't choose more in the end that you kept her sitting there waiting for nothing.
XXkaiiOO answered Sunday October 29 2006, 10:02 pm: well. you could try and think about a few things.
1- who have you known longer?
2- who have you liked longer?
3- if you've ever liked one of them before.
4-if one of them has ever liked you before.
and if that doesnt help than try talking to them both more. and getting to know both of them better. and then go from there. you know? you might have more in common with one than then other. and you might have more in common with them both than you think.
EriksBallerina answered Sunday October 29 2006, 10:01 pm: Try to get to know them better as PEOPLE. Not "girrlfriends". Then, after a period of time, I'm sure you'll be more certain about which one's personality suits you best.
VainTaraLynn answered Sunday October 29 2006, 9:32 pm: Well. I'm assuming that you're fairly young, or else you wouldnt be asking this question. So based on that assumption, things arent super serious yet. I say stay single and hang out with both of them, and see which one that you have stronger feelings for. See who you're most compatible with. It's not like you're going to marry them so just have fun with it. If you really want to date one of them though, then dont worry about hurting anyones feelings and go with the one that you're most comfortable with and that you could see establishing a relationship with. =] [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
xemmiex3 answered Sunday October 29 2006, 9:31 pm: get to know them both a little better. find their good and bad qualities. that will definatly help to decide which girl is more your type. i hope i helped! [ xemmiex3's advice column | Ask xemmiex3 A Question ]
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