So I'm like really close friends with this guy named adrian. We just met this year and I've liked him and he knows I do. We tell each otehr a lot of things and talk about almost everything. Well he flirts with me a lot.. like hes always hugging me and we fell asleep on a couch together last night. But he doesnt like me even though he flirts with me..maybe thats how he is but hes not reallly like that to everyone. We used to talk on the phone every night but now theres a girl in the picture her name is Patty. She likes him and he likes her and supposably they arent dating yet but they are close. I'm soo jealous and hes always asking to use my phone to call her and shes called my phone looking for him the other night. Ugh it pisses me off and makes me soo jealous. I like him a lot and i've tried to get over him but its just too hard. I dont know what to do.. help pleaseE?
ductape_n_roses answered Sunday October 29 2006, 10:53 pm: Well, think about this:
By the way he's acting with you, if he and patty goes out, the relationship won't get too far, deep, or long.
Now, you are really good friends with him from what I can tell...and Patty will end up being one of his ex's. Now, tell me--would you rather be his ex or good friend?
You can't change who he likes and not like. You'll just have to accept his feelings. And if you really really like him, you'd rahter feel happy for him because he likes someone who likes him back. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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