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14/f asking guys out
14/f
i've gotten a lot of adive to "go ahead and ask him out" ok, so i was thinking of doing that.
just what are some ways that aren't awkward to ask a guy out if he's not makin the first move and im almost positive he likes me?
thanks soo much.
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Just start a normal conversation with him, like you do it all the time and mention going to a movie this weekend. Ask him if he wants to join you. If not, ask him just to hang out with you. Good luck!
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Well, the other answer posted here suggests talking over the computer. I guess that would be a way to do it.
When I was your age (I'm twice that now), computers weren't really around much. We had them in school, but that was about it. No internet. If I was interested in a guy, we had to talk in person or on the phone. Chances of having the phone number were slim, which left in person. I learned that there is really no way that doesn't feel awkward. Doesn't matter if you are male or female. It is just hard to ask someone out. Perhaps it is fear of getting rejected or something. Anyway, the best thing I found is to just get it over with. Whether you are face to face, on the phone, or online, just ask him. Just blurt out "will you go out with me sometime?" This leaves the details open, so you aren't taking control (which can scare guys). Instead, you are letting him know your interest. Most guys will say yes. Then you can work out the details.
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i personally think its easier to talk over the computer because then you dont have to go face to face. Good luck!
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