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cheating
ok i need to know if this is considered cheating...I am "cake" and one of my guy friends is "d". I talked to him and I know he likes me.
[21:02] Cake: hey
[21:02] d: hi
[21:03] Cake: how's it goin?
[21:03] davis9088: pretty good
[21:03] Cake: thats good
[21:04] d: yea i guess
[21:05] Cake: :P
[21:05] d: i need a hug
[21:06] Cake: aww sry
[21:06] Cake: *hug*
[21:07] Cake: wish i could hug you but i can't really have people over right now
[21:07] Cake: so thats gonna have to work
[21:07] Cake: haha
[21:07] d: what
[21:07] Cake: *hug*
[21:10] Cake: so how's it going with that one chick that turns 18 soon
[21:10] d: good
[21:10] Cake: cool
[21:11] Cake: so you guys are gonna hook up soon maybe?
[21:11] d: umm what do you mean
[21:12] Cake: you said there was some chick that you were talking to at your lunch break
[21:12] Cake: did you guys hookup?
[21:12] d: she won't fuck me
[21:12] Cake: oh
[21:13] d: shes a good girl
[21:13] Cake: so is that all you are lookin for haha
[21:13] d: n
[21:13] d: i don't care that i'm not gunna get laid
[21:13] d: thats kinda why i like her
[21:13] Cake: thats cool
[21:14] d: and if i ever do get to have sex with her awesome
[21:14] Cake: i feel neglected
[21:15] d: why
[21:15] Cake: my boyfriends playing WoW
[21:15] Cake: :P
[21:15] Cake: and he' like hardly talking to me
[21:15] d: whats wow
[21:15] d: never mind
[21:15] Cake: World of Warcraft
[21:15] Cake: oh ok
[21:16] d: well i'm talking kinda
[21:16] d: i still wanna see ya
[21:16] Cake: yeah i have to like pounce on him to get him to talk to me
[21:16] d: punc eon me
[21:17] Cake: yeah but pouncing leads to much more
[21:17] d: hmmm
[21:17] d: i'd like that
[21:17] Cake: silly boy
[21:18] d: so do it
[21:19] Cake: what's your favorite part of sex?
[21:19] d: i'm not sure
[21:19] d: i love it when the girl fels great
[21:20] d: how she asks for more
[21:20] Cake: usually guys are very sure haha
[21:20] d: i just love it
[21:21] d: i dunno why
[21:21] d: i just wihs i could nut up in her
[21:21] d: instead of worry about pullin out
[21:22] d: gosh
[21:22] Cake: yea
[21:22] d: i so wanna do it now
[21:22] d: your so mean
[21:22] d: why doyou have to get me hard
[21:22] Cake: i was just curious
[21:22] d: do yo like to be eaten out
[21:22] Cake: nuh uh
[21:23] d: so yo jus tlike se
[21:23] d: sex
[21:23] Cake: many kinds
[21:23] d: tell me what you like best
[21:23] Cake: humm
[21:23] Cake: thats acually pretty hard
[21:23] d: hmm
[21:24] Cake: i like it when he's first putting it in
[21:24] d: do you like having sex with or without a condom
[21:24] Cake:it's way better without a condom
[21:24] d: so a girl can tell
[21:24] Cake: yeah
[21:25] d: so when could i see what its like
[21:25] d: i wanna have sex with you
[21:25] Cake: you couldn't handle me
[21:25] Cake: haha
[21:25] d: are you sure
[21:26] Cake: no
[21:26] d: y ou couldn't handle me
[21:26] Cake: but i know i can't have sex with you
[21:26] d: why can't you
[21:26] Cake: boyfriend
[21:26] d: how big is he
[21:26] Cake: big enough for me
[21:26] d: soo
[21:26] Cake: i've never measured him before
[21:27] Cake: i dunno
[21:27] Cake: pretty big
[21:27] d: what happens if we had sex
[21:28] Cake: hum
[21:28] Cake: i dunno
[21:28] Cake: i would end up telling him
[21:28] d: well thats cool
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Honestly, I don't think you needed to talk about your boyfriend in a situation like this. I think you could have changed the subject. It's not cheating, cause it wasn't physical. If you love your boyfriend, don't talk about him like this.
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Cheating is whenever you actually are doing something with another person, so no, I wouldn't consider it cheating. But I wouldn't be talking about stuff like that to other guys, I mean you can crack sex jokes and stuff and maybe talk to them like, as a conversation for advice or something, but not talks of "can you handle me" and whatnot. I mean, think if your boyfriend was sitting there talking to this girl and she was saying that sort of stuff. I don't think you like it, right? So just sort of veer off away from that kind of conversation if he ever starts talking about it again. And if he continues to, just be like,"I don't want to talk about this, I have a boyfriend, remember?" and let him know you want him to stop talking about it.
I hope I helped.
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I dont think its cheating, but you were like one step away. What you were talking about with this guy wasn't cool. I know its hard cause you wanna have fun(believe me I understand you) But you have a boyfriend, how do you think he wou ld feel if he saw this? I doubt he would be happy. You dont need to like tell him about it, just try and tone it down w/this other guy next time and tell him your not interested. hope i helped!
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I would not consider that cheating since you didn't do anything with him. But don't you feel regret for having such a suggestive conversation with a guy other than your boyfriend?
Just think, how would you feel if he had a similar conversation with a girl who liked him?
But no, not cheating. :)
(unless of course you actually had sex with the other guy)
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its not "cheating". I dont think its that big of deal but..remember to respect his gf you know. Hope i helped =)
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I dont think its cheating unless you actually do something. But, i think what ur doing here is definetly not cool. But, yeah i dont think its cheating unless you actually do have sex with him.
Best of luck
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