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Boyfriend problem
I am female, 23 years old and my boyfriend 22. After almost 2 years of relationship, my boyfriend called me ugly. What can I do or what can I say?
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Hold on wait a minute! your boyfriend called you ugly after two years. did you two have fight or he just said it randomnly? what you should say is if i was ugly then ehy did you start talking to me? then i suggest to seriously leave him you don't want aguy who's gonna put you down like that you can do better
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Well, before you destroy his heart (which you should at least consider), ask him why he thinks that. Ask him what has changed in the past two years to cause him to think something so negatively about you?
Clearly this is a problem, and it's probably bigger than you want it to be. It sounds like the beginning of the end. You had better get to the root of the problem before your relationship goes spiraling into the toilet.
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If your guy called you ugly, then you shoulod dump him, you shudnt be with sum one eho doesnt appreciate you! Dum him, and soo he will feel bad for losign you. But if it was a joke, then talk 2 him, about it and tell him that you were really hurt.
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Tell him he's not exactly god's gift to women either.
Be harsh to him aswell, see how he likes it!
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I'm sorry, but why would your boyfriend say this unless it was intentional?
I'm not trying to critisize the poster below me, but this isn't something you can just forget about. It's harsh and it has nothing to do with 'not caring about looks' even if you really thought someone was ugly, you don't tell them that harshly unless you are absolutely trying to put them down on purpose.
Now, I'm wondering if this was during a fight. People tend to say things they don't mean when fighting, but he kind of crossed the line with that comment. Whatever the situation was, it was wrong and you have to tell him that it hurt you. Plus, let's admit something true here. If we aren't attracted to the person we love, it makes it harder to love them as much. I'm definitely not saying what he said was true, but it's pretty important that you know what he really thinks of you.
If what he said was true, then obviously you can't stay with him. It would jeopardize your relationship and you're self-esteem would eventually go all the way down the drain and you don't deserve that. If what he said wasn't true, give him a hard time about what he said and let him know how you felt when you heard it. I think he deserves to feel pretty bad about this.
-TheTeenGirl
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Forget about it. I don't know about you, but whether it was meant or not, I would not want to be liked for my looks. I wouldn't take it too hard, and I suggest you definately talk to him. Let him know you didn't like that. Ask him why. Vent a little bit. It's not the end of the world. You are both mature adults, and I'm sure you can talk it out. It's been two years - do you think he's been with you for the way you look, or for who you are on the inside. No beauty on the outside can ever replace inner beauty. Hope that helped and good luck.
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