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I'm 18 years old and a senior in high school. i'm a laid back person who is shy and quiet with a sense of humor...i can be very sarcastic. But at the same time I'm quiet and can be very shy. I love to give people advice because I find that it comes naturally. You can ask me anyting. If you wanna ask something but don't wanna put it up just e-mail me.
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E-mail: non_chalant1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Connecticut
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: October 30, 2006
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Last Update: December 13, 2006
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okay umm last night was homecoming and after homecoming the high school always puts on a dance that lasts till like, 1 in the morning. well, since it was so late i stayed at a friends house so my parents wouldn't have to come pick me up that late/early (whatever way you wanna look at it) because we live out of town. well my friends cousin just happens to be my bf and we (me and my bf) snuck out of my friends house and had sex. well it was my first time and all, and i heard it was supposed to hurt, but it didnt except a little at first. and ive heard about women having 'multiple orgasms'....is it normal to have like, 8? cuz umm thats what happened so what exactly does that mean? (link)
i would say he pleasured u! what's the problem most females don't have orgasms u got lucky


i have a motorola razr cingular. how do i make sure i am NOT online on it? would there be a specific icon on the tp corner if i was? please help me to verify that i am NOT online or at the multimedia mall thing on my phone! also, what does it mean when it says "bytes tranfered"? is that charging me money whenever it says that?!?! i think i went on the internet for 30 sec. & i THINK i got off & when i did it said that. does it charge me money?? please help, thank you! (link)
I have cingular pay as you go with internet (sony ericsson) going on the internet for a minute or sec is definetley using up mins and you can know if your on there when you see the little logo in the corner that looks like the earth thats what it has on my phone. if u don't wanna go on there make sure you don't shop for graphics, ring tones, etc because it basically uses internet and it costs too much to use


14/F.

I'm confused, does he like me or not?
Please, be completely honest. I want to know if I should continue to like him, or move on.

*Whenever I would see him, he'd give me these huge smiles & stare at me.
* I think he would take pictures of my ass? well, atleast, when he was walking behind me with his cell phone, I heard somrthing clicking. Like the sound that a camera phone makes.
*He'd show me how strong he is, or how tall he is.
*He'd take a bunch of random pictures of me.
*He'd lay on my bed & just smile and stare at me.. aha?
*He'd throw rubberbands at me.
& a bunch of other stuff.

[By the way, that was all in ONE night. Except for the first one.. he always does that]

So, what do you think? Is that the signs of a boy liking you? I'd tell him, but I have NO clue when I'll see him again, we don't go to the same schools. [I go to catholic, he goes to public] What do I do? He lives close to me...

Majorrrr thanks, in adavance. (link)
He likes you. i mean it's all there he's staring which is the first sign. he's also smiling. sounds like he was flirting with you alot. he wants you but he's probably afraid to come out and say it so next time you see him and he's staring and smiling do it right back! let him know the feelings are mutual and when he takes more pictures you should say "you take so many pictures of me what's the reason?" or you could just come right out and ask him if he likes you but if your shy just continue with the eye contact start giving him hugs so you can get closer to him and make sure you look directly in his eyes...the whole time your really close if the dark circles in the center of his eyes (pupils) are big then that means he likes you i hope that helps


I am female, 23 years old and my boyfriend 22. After almost 2 years of relationship, my boyfriend called me ugly. What can I do or what can I say? (link)
Hold on wait a minute! your boyfriend called you ugly after two years. did you two have fight or he just said it randomnly? what you should say is if i was ugly then ehy did you start talking to me? then i suggest to seriously leave him you don't want aguy who's gonna put you down like that you can do better


i am a freshman and I'm bi, but none of my friends know it. I have a crush on this junior who is a lesbian but i don't know what to do. do u think i have a chance with a girl that's 2 years older than me, and what should i do to make her notice me? (link)
when i was a freshman this girl like me. she use to stare me down like crazy which got my attention. it made me realize that the girl was looking at me in a different way. one day when she was at my lunch table i felt her staring and i felt uncomfortable so i turned to look at her and she had the biggest smile on her face and she was waving at me. not just a wave but a girly wave that you give to someone you think like. what i suggest is you make eye contact if she sees you always staring she will pick up on it ( i would) don't over do it though just do it enough for her to know your attracted to her. and smile tha'll be the dead give away....let me know what happens


Alright, well, I've never been kissed ( and I'm 15 ).

So I mean, I've been asked by guys ( which I find funny in some weird way and then just put it off ) because I guess I don't want my first kiss to be that way, and tonight I was asked again, and of course, me being me, I said no. And I'm just afraid that's giving guys vibes that I like, hate them or something which isn't true. I just want my first kiss to be special, but lately I'm just like,"God, do it, get it over with, whatever." But I don't know, I don't even really know what my real question is.


I guess I'm just asking for your opinion on things. Like; what would you do if you were me? (link)
wait till the right moment. it's no fun if someone asks you for a kiss you want it to be with a boy you really like and vice versa. thats what i did i had my first kiss when i was 12 now i'm 18 and i've kissed 2 people since. can you believe the boy i kissed first was the best? i think it's because the other 2 i didn't like them as much and i just kissed them just to do it...so kiss because you want it not because someone you don't have deep feelings for asks you. a first kiss should be special i agree




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