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Kissing.
Alright, well, I've never been kissed ( and I'm 15 ).
So I mean, I've been asked by guys ( which I find funny in some weird way and then just put it off ) because I guess I don't want my first kiss to be that way, and tonight I was asked again, and of course, me being me, I said no. And I'm just afraid that's giving guys vibes that I like, hate them or something which isn't true. I just want my first kiss to be special, but lately I'm just like,"God, do it, get it over with, whatever." But I don't know, I don't even really know what my real question is.
I guess I'm just asking for your opinion on things. Like; what would you do if you were me?
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Lots of people your age haven't had their first first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first kiss when they're 12; others when they're 13 and some even only have their first kiss when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 15, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends and kisses, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy and you'll get your first kiss. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.
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wait till the right moment. it's no fun if someone asks you for a kiss you want it to be with a boy you really like and vice versa. thats what i did i had my first kiss when i was 12 now i'm 18 and i've kissed 2 people since. can you believe the boy i kissed first was the best? i think it's because the other 2 i didn't like them as much and i just kissed them just to do it...so kiss because you want it not because someone you don't have deep feelings for asks you. a first kiss should be special i agree
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it is completely okay to want your first kiss to be special.
don't just kiss someone because you want to get it over with, wait for the person you want to kiss, to come along. it'll make the kiss so much better & your memory better too =]
you wouldn't want to kiss someone random & then look back at how crappy your first kiss was(like mine = )
i think its sweet that you want to wait, and if i could go back to the past, i would have waited for a special first kiss, too.
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if i were you, i would wait until the time is right. you will know when that is. i would want it to be completly perfect. make it so you will always remember it. i say, wait until it happens at the right time with the right person. you will be happier after.
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Same situation. Am just waiting for that guy. There's this guy who I'm kinda hoping is going to give me special moment, but I'm not too stressed about it.
Just give it time. It will happen for you, I promise.
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Well, I got my first kiss when I was 13, it was at his birthday, & the day before his party, I wasn't dropping hints or atleast I didn't meant to. Anyways, I was saying like.. how cute would it be to kiss under the stars or something. & hes like yeah.. so he told my best friend all that, that was coming to the party.. so they planned this thing, that I had no clue about & there like, LETS PLAY HIDE N SEEK. & i was like.. "ok whatever, arn't we a little old?" & there like "noooo" So, all of a sudden my boyfriend at the time.. is like "Hayley come on!" & I was like "ok?" So, we ran into the woods.. & hes like.."Look up" & im like ..uhm ok? & he smiled at me & kissed me. It depends, do you want somrthing like that, or do you just wanna get kissed? If I were you, I'd wait for someone you realllyy like. & have it special, evne if your kissing in a closet or something, still it could still be cute. (:
kseeya
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I was in the same situation. I was also 15. But I had a boyfriend that I cared about deeply. He and I had been dating over a year before we had our first kiss, because I, like you wanted it to be special. And it was. So don't give up your first kiss just to get it over with. Keep your standards high and your first kiss will be more special than you can imagine.
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I was in your situation, however I was only 13 at the time. My best friend was doing things way beyond kissing, and I felt I needed to catch up.
I found a boy, I didn't care how he looked or his personality, and we flirted, soon enough I had him. I told him I've never been kissed and it was thrust upon him to be my first.
I regret it 100%.
It was disgusting, he drooled all over me.
It didn't feel special whatsoever.
I recommend you wait, a boy will come.
Just, uck, don't do what I did.
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I know exactly how you feel, I'm 15 and never been kissed. All of my friends have been kissed and they kind of tease me about never having a boyfriend and of course I get embarassed and feel sad. But then I think you know it's not my time yet and it makes me feel a lot better that there are people out there that feel the same way. I want it to be special but then sometimes I think gosh just go kiss someone already! But no I'm not gonna let the whole peer pressure thing get to me..they can tease me all they want but I'm still waiting for that special moment.
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hey no I understand what your meaning by all of this,you want your first kiss to happen but you dont want it to be with just anybody.If you give it a chance then that guy that you want to be kissed by for the 1st time will come.
-Alex
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