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tonight, jill came up to me and asked me if i went to julie's house the night before. i said no and asked her why. she said "oh, she had people over" and i was like oh. no big deal - i wouldn't have really cared if i wasn't invited. so, later on jill came up to me again and said (i didn't ask her to ask julie this, but she did anyway), "julie said that you were invited and she told mary (my other friend) to tell you about it, but she said you couldn't go." mary never told me anything, and the fact that i couldn't go was a lie. should i talk to mary about it? like, what should i say?
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Hearing something about a friend from a friend of that friend is a really great way to get incorrect information.
It might have just been honest confusion and unless you have some other reason to distrust Mary, I would just let it go. At very least, before you confront her, speak to Julie and make sure what Jill told you about the whole thing was accurate.
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Yes, I think you should talk to mary. Just tell her everything, like what you heard jill say. Also, you should probably ask mary why she would have done something like that - if she even did it.
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