|
|
|
|
|
Q: iv been with my bf for about a month and we havent kissed yet. i really wanna kiss him but im too shy to make the first move. Is there any signs or something i could do to get him to kiss me?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I'm going through the same thing. I guess, the only thing I can really say is, no one will know when it's the right time except you and him. Kissing isn't really something you plan on happening, I guess sometimes, but it's a lot easier for it to just happen when it happens. If you plan on it, you begin to think about it ALL day and wonder what he'll do, and if he wanted to kiss you, too. Trust me, you'll know when the time is right.
- Li'l SJV
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: I'm a teenage g i r l who has been suicidal for 4 years.
I don't know what to do. I h a t e life so much because I have no reason to live. All I ever do is schoolwork and running around to different things. And I get yelled at. NO ONE loves me or cares if I draw another breath. No one.
If I had a significant other who was actually NOT an I wouldn't be suicidal.
I'm considered "obese" (5'3" and 169 lbs) and I'm SICK of going on diets, losing weight, and gaining it all back because of stress. So DON'T reccomend that I *try* to lose weight, because I'm sick of that. So don't even mention anything about losing weight.
I'm not fat because I'm a couch potato. I'm fat because I was born that way. I've never been thin. And I'll die a fatass. Just like I am now.
The things people say and the looks I get are just too much. "OH MY GOD SHE'S SO FAT" and other like that. I'm so pretty that I could get a boyfriend if I were thin.
How would you reccomend that I ? I need to do it really soon because I don't have a chance at getting a boyfriend. And I want to die because of it.
If you don't have L O V E in your life, you should die. Like me. NO one loves me so I'm going to next sunday at 12:00 pm if SOMEONE doesn't call me to ask me out. I'm sick of living and there's no reason to go on like this.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Listen, sometimes life really bites, but that doesn't mean you should even think about killing yourself. You're under a lot of stress, I know that. But, listen, you're not alone, no one is ever alone. There are people who were like you and worked their way through it all, and there are people who are just like you, and are trying to work their way through.
If there are problems in your life, you fix them, not by killing yourself. You were put on this planet for a reason, and you should live your life to the fullest. And yes, there IS a reason to go on, you were meant to be someone and things WILL get better. At least one person thinks about you every night, and thats true. Let me know how it all works out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q:
My and my "boyfriend" just broke up nine days ago. It feels like months, because he asked someone out right after he broke up with me. I was heartbroke, I was crying everynight. I'm no longer crying every night, but I still love him. I want to let him know; that I miss him & love him still. Even if he doesn't want me back. I'm thinking about asking him out again, after I get myself back together.
But he still has a girlfriend, it's completly obvious that the relationship between them won't last. It's sorta of a rebound-relationship. I haven't talk to him ONCE since the breakup. I don't want to ask him out right away. But, I don't know how to start talking to him again without it being really awkward. Help?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Well, it's possible that he might still like you, and he's just dating her to make you jealous. That is, unless he broke up with you.
If that's the case, and if you're sure you want him back, just call him on the phone, IM him, or if he's ever away from his girlfriend and everyone else, tell him how you feel. Think of something good to say, something that will make him want you back.
Or, you could just remind him of all of the good times you had with him, then he might in time find out that he's better off with you and no one else.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: tonight, jill came up to me and asked me if i went to julie's house the night before. i said no and asked her why. she said "oh, she had people over" and i was like oh. no big deal - i wouldn't have really cared if i wasn't invited. so, later on jill came up to me again and said (i didn't ask her to ask julie this, but she did anyway), "julie said that you were invited and she told mary (my other friend) to tell you about it, but she said you couldn't go." mary never told me anything, and the fact that i couldn't go was a lie. should i talk to mary about it? like, what should i say?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Yes, I think you should talk to mary. Just tell her everything, like what you heard jill say. Also, you should probably ask mary why she would have done something like that - if she even did it.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: This may take awhile but you have to know the detail to get it.One of me bestfriends[jessica] went out with this kid named jon.She went out with him for about 5 months and they broke up. A day after they broke up jon got a new girlfriend. Him and my bestfriend still had a little spark,but not much.He went to her house and they kissed and made out, while he was going out with his new girlfriend.So one night they were having a fight,and my bestfriend got so mad that she threatened him to tell his new girlfriend that he cheated on her, and she told her. When jon found out he was pretty pissed,he made almost everyone she was friends with against her.He use to 'prank phone call' her, with things saying that hes going to cut her throut and things like that. Now its been about 5 months since they broke up and hes still prank phone calling her. Its gotten so bad that whenever the call comes on private shes afraid of answering her phone. For example one night he called her 26 times in a half hour. He hasnt called in awhile since then.But just recently she went out with this kid. They went out for 2 weeks, just before he broke up with her a new girl came into the picture.The new girl who came into the picture and ruined their relationship,and that wasnt helping that she isnt liked by my group of friends because of reasons, and that she is one of jessicas enimies.Now its been about 3 weeks since her ex and enemy is going out,and jon has been calling her again,but this time I think its really getting to her. He stille threatens her and tells her how ugly she is, but he only does it in prank phone call and not in person/to her face. Her parents didnt know they were going out so she cant really tell them, so what im asking is, what can we do to make him stop? He just started calling again,I think its because her recent ex is going out with jons bestfriend...
In my opinion fighting physical will stop him, but i think its just me thinking that and no one else.I appreciate you reading this.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tell her to do the exact same thing to him and prank call him like every two minutes. He'll eventually back down and stop prank calling. Tell her to be as annoying as possible, a little revenge never hurt much =).
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: a couple of my friends lied straight to my face last night. i can't explain the whole situation, but they could have told me the truth - they didn't have to lie about it. i don't want to talk to them about it because they make me feel like _ _ _ _ when i try to tell them my feelings and they always go and talk about me and tell the others what i said afterward. what should i do?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I have a friend who is exactly like that. I'll tell her things that she knows she's not supposed to tell anyone else, but she tells everyone anyway. And when I ask if she did, she always says she didn't. Well, what I did was get a friend I could really trust, and wouldn't even think about telling someone else my secrets. Get a friend who can be honest to you about anything and would never tell anyone else your secrets.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: On the new Laguna Beach commercial, they play a song that I looove. The problem is, I don't know the name of it. Does anyone?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
That's my favorite song =)! It's called "It Ends Tonight" by the All-American Rejects. It's just such a great song...Hope I helped.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: Most of you who answered my last question about what to do because I found out my my friend (who's a guy)is smoking. Well, I talked to him about it today and he started yelling at me and saying that he didn't. So, now he won't talk to me. I don't want him mad at me, but I don't want him to be doing drugs either. Now what do I do about him?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I think the best thing that you can do in this situation is at least try to talk to him. Don't get mad but just talk about it. It would be better than avoiding him and just let him do drugs, you are a good friend for caring, and you should definetly help him out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: For as long as I can remember my family has been realy srued up.I think that every think that has happind is makeing me depressed, my sister cuts herself and now I almost think I want to cut myself to.I know nothing is going to get better only wores so there is nothin I con do.How can I deel with my family so that i don't end up cuting myself?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Cutting yourself is never the thing to do. Teenage years really bite, and it's really hard to go through all of these things that you have to constantly worry about. But if you just carry on and live life, things will get better, believe me. So, just take my advice. Carry on, live life, and keep your friends close because my friends are really the only thing that saves me from life sometimes. Also, talk about it to someone close to you. It helps a bunch to let your emotions out, and just talk some things over with someone. Most likely, they will understand your situation and make you feel better.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
bio
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
My name is Samantha, Sam for short. I'm a pretty average person, I have a lot of friends, and I love giving advice, I will always think of the best answers to all of your questions. I love music, and absolutely hate homework. But I can always be trusted, and I can help with most anything. So if theres anything you have a question about, please feel free to ask me.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Info
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Gender: Female Occupation: student Age: 13 Member Since: October 28, 2006 Answers: 9 Last Update: November 1, 2006 Visitors: 2120
Main Categories:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|