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a couple of my friends lied straight to my face last night. i can't explain the whole situation, but they could have told me the truth - they didn't have to lie about it. i don't want to talk to them about it because they make me feel like _ _ _ _ when i try to tell them my feelings and they always go and talk about me and tell the others what i said afterward. what should i do?
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I have a friend who is exactly like that. I'll tell her things that she knows she's not supposed to tell anyone else, but she tells everyone anyway. And when I ask if she did, she always says she didn't. Well, what I did was get a friend I could really trust, and wouldn't even think about telling someone else my secrets. Get a friend who can be honest to you about anything and would never tell anyone else your secrets.
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my friends do this alot too. hopefully it will blow over. just ask them like "what did i do to deserve that?". maybe they were just mad at you for something. but maybe they arent the greatest friends. if they dont apologize to you, screw them. tell them off and find new friends.
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Stop being friends with them. When your friends lie straight to your face, talk shit about you to other people, and put you down when you try to say what's on your mind, then they're not really your friends. You deserve better.
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I doubt it's what you want to hear, but you need new friends. No one deserves to be stabbed in the back by their "friends". It just isn't fair to you. I urge you to think about it before you make a decision, but if they don't care that they are hurting your feelings, they aren't much of friends.
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