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hey im shivi, im ere 2 giv as much honest advice as i can, trust me, iv bin thru alot alredy n im only 16, so i kno how ppl feel, i listen well and im the number 1 agony aunt for my friends so im trusted easily n if ya want any more advice or wanna chat about things privatly ask me for my msn kk? n dnt forget to be happy! luff 2 y'all mwa xxxx
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if you have sex like a lot in a 3 months.. and then just stop can your period cycle change because im almost 2 weeks late and i havent gotten it yet and i did have unprotected sex but i dont think im pregnant.
sex can sometimes can mess up your cycle and i know what you mean with that because it messed mine up but if i were you id go to the doctors and get tested! because not only could you be pregnant but you could also have a STI. i think the most sensible idea to stop you from worrying or anything is go and get tested for STI's n take a pregnancy test there aswell
Hi, I was wondering if you could help me
I like a guy called James (he used to work with my sister) we've been on dates to the cinema but nothing has actually happened between us. We are also arranging to go bowling some time.
I asked his friend if he liked me and he said "He thinks your too young for him" Im 17 and he is 20 (but Im turning 18 next month)
I think its pretty stupid and i dont know if he said it because he DOESNT like me and didnt want to hurt my feelings. Im soooo confused
I dont know whether to ask him if he likes me, im pretty shy about asking those things to buys.
What do you think i should do?
Thanks
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heya, i'll try and help as much as i can on this one.
i know how you feel with the whole confused bit because i'v been in the exact same situation as you are now.
and i know how awful it can make you feel because questions start going around your head but if you really think about it hun, he would'nt agree to take you to the cinema or go bowling with you if he didn't like you.
He'd try and make an excuse up if he didn't like you to get out of it.
Im not completely sure but the reason why his friend told you he said you were too young could be because he likes you! or maybe that the guy you like blew his friend off to go out bowling or the cinema with you...if that made sense :S
just try not to get your hope too high as relationships with people older than you do generally head the wrong direction but don't look so deep into whats been said to you.
hope iv been a little bit of help there...x
My gf and i are 15 and weve been together for 6 months we make out and that but she wants to start to do a bit more im a bit nervous and well she wants to see my penis and well its not that big im really worrried does it matter that much especially if its small?
The one thing that most lads worry about is their size! and size does not make the slightest bit of difference it's all about the feeling you have for each other not about the things your doing with each other.
And you've got to remember your still going through puberty so no matter how big or small it is then it's going to get bigger as time passes.
Another thing you've got to remember is your still only 15, it's illegal to have sex and if you don't feel confident enough to show anything then maybe you need to take a step back and think are you ready?
Im 16 now and me and my boyfriend havn't done anything more than makeout because i don't feel emotionally ready (baring mind iv had a tough life) so don't let your gf pressure you into anything and if she's half the girl you think she is then she'll understand, if she keeps pressuring you then maybe she's not worth it chuck
just do things when you feel ready x
I dont know what to do. My mother is literally draining me. It's like everyday its a new arguement, and it's always her starting it. She over reacts, she yells at me for nothing, she accuses me of things, she just makes me feel like such a terrible person. I understand when Im wrong, and I usually try to leave her alone and not bother anyone, but it doesnt matter! I always end up crying at the end of the night. I cant concentrate, I cant handle it. Im verbally abused all the time. It's hurt me in so many ways. I've become meaner, because I try to defend myself. I dont like the nasty words that come out of my mouth, but they just do now. My grades have slipped all the way and Im barely not failing. I want to have a mother/daughter relationship, but she literally won't listen. I ask her to try to listen and after i say something serious like that she hurts my feelings she'll tell me im being dramatic and be rude. its just killing me so much and i cant take it much longer. does anyone have any advice, or something, that can help me in any way? im breaking down right now.
heya darlin, i know your feeling really down and probably feel quite unloved by your mum right now but the best thing you can do is keep your head up n show her it's not getting to you...when she starts shouting and screaming abuse at you then i know this sounds easier than it is, but sit there and take it, dont say anything back to her and dont raise your voice at her because she's looking for a reaction out of you.
by the sounds of it i think she might have a few issues of her own and the only way for her to get her feelings out is through anger. i agree that it shouldnt be aimed at you and maybe you should sit down with her and have a proper conversation with her, i know it's going to be hard for the first bit of time but it will get easier n then everything should hopefully get into a nice flow of words.
dont be too drastic in what you say at first like dont come out with "your hurting my feelings" straight away, try and get into a conversation first n then gradually build up into that without any raised voices.
remember chik, talking is the best way of getting any emotions out. if you want to talk to me just message me ok
hope iv been some help xx
I`ve been abused by my dad sense I was little. He hasnt done it as much but he has been doing it still. Last night he hit my really bad with his fists nd choked me. I love my family so much but it hurts me so bad that I get hurt and I feel like im not worth anything. What should I do? I dont like living here but I wouldnt like living anywhere else! what should i do? My dad has been reported to the department of human services but they never do anything. Im 15 by the way. Im just tired of being hit and left with bruises and the emotional pain!
what should i do?
i know how you feel hun! i got abused from when i was two untill i was 13 when my dad got put into prison for it! i know you love your family and i can understand how much you dont want to lose them because i was in the same situation but i think its time for you to be strong and say something about it! if you don't do it now it's only going to get worse! call child line and explain how you feel..they'll go through things with you and help you out about what to say but you really need to do something about it!
hope iv been some help to you xx
16,female
how can i be more comfortable with my body? i mean im about 5'6 and im only about 110 pounds. i think im skinny but im fine with the way i look the only thing is that when guys are like "let me see your boobs" or something haha that sounds bad but like if i was going out with someone i dont feel comfortable AT ALL letting them see my private stuff. i dont know why but how can i become more comfortable..i think its so awkard when boys do that to me. ive only flashed guys one time and it was at night and only for like 20 seconds ahha but IT TOOK ME A ALONG TIME for it to actually happen.i know alot of guys think im hot so they wouldnt say anything bad about me and im not saying i want to be a slut or anything but i just wish i was comfortable with that kind of stuff. and also when boys finger girls and stuff how do you keep "down there" smooth. because its embarassing since mines always like prickly and it would be weird if they were to go down there and feel that! i dont know if its just me or what but i dont know how to get over these things!
the way to be more comfortable around boys is to become more comfortable with yourself! i know it seems hard because trust me it took a long time for me to become comfortable to flash at people but the way i did it was every time i was alone in the house id stand infront of the mirror naked and pretend that my reflection was someone i didnt know...then i started picking out all the things that look good on the reflection rather than the bad things and soon after i started to become more comfortable around boys! and about keeping smooth...dont worry about it too much because most boys dont care about that! all they care about when doing things like that is how enjoyable they can make it if that makes sense lol hope iv been some help to you!
I reallylike this boy and he likes me too. The thing is i dont like how he dresses my friends have even said he looks like trailer trash but im crazy about his personaliity. What do i do? p.s. he has heart problems and has a heart monitor
if he likes you and you like him, then what are you waiting for, it doesn't really matter how people dress, or if they have problems, it's whats underneath that counts! so don't worry about what your mates think, if their gunna have a laugh at him let them laugh, bcos they're not true friends if they laugh at some-one. hold your head high and be proud to be with him! like i said it doesn't matter what people think, it's between you and your lad and no-one else.
what do i do if my best friend is going out with my exboyfriend?
if i was you, id take a little break from your mate, show her how much it's upset you, you don't turn your back on your friends for some lad! take a break from her and see how things plan out, if she still stays with and doesn't realise how much it's hurt you, then she isn't a real friend!