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not really comfortable with my "body" and boys..
16,female
how can i be more comfortable with my body? i mean im about 5'6 and im only about 110 pounds. i think im skinny but im fine with the way i look the only thing is that when guys are like "let me see your boobs" or something haha that sounds bad but like if i was going out with someone i dont feel comfortable AT ALL letting them see my private stuff. i dont know why but how can i become more comfortable..i think its so awkard when boys do that to me. ive only flashed guys one time and it was at night and only for like 20 seconds ahha but IT TOOK ME A ALONG TIME for it to actually happen.i know alot of guys think im hot so they wouldnt say anything bad about me and im not saying i want to be a slut or anything but i just wish i was comfortable with that kind of stuff. and also when boys finger girls and stuff how do you keep "down there" smooth. because its embarassing since mines always like prickly and it would be weird if they were to go down there and feel that! i dont know if its just me or what but i dont know how to get over these things!
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the way to be more comfortable around boys is to become more comfortable with yourself! i know it seems hard because trust me it took a long time for me to become comfortable to flash at people but the way i did it was every time i was alone in the house id stand infront of the mirror naked and pretend that my reflection was someone i didnt know...then i started picking out all the things that look good on the reflection rather than the bad things and soon after i started to become more comfortable around boys! and about keeping smooth...dont worry about it too much because most boys dont care about that! all they care about when doing things like that is how enjoyable they can make it if that makes sense lol hope iv been some help to you!
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You're only going to be comfortable around people if you're comfortable around yourself. When you're home alone, walk around naked. It's weird to do but it could help with your problem. If you're comfortable naked around yourself, you should be comfortable while nude around other people. I'm not quite at that stage, and I don't like myself naked, but I'm working on it. If you're confident in yourself & how you look, then it'll really be good when you're around other people. If you're not, it's gonna show & it's gonna stop you from doing alot. So walk around your house naked.
As for when a guy fingers you, in order to keep your vagina smooth, use shaving cream first, and then go over it with soap. When you get out of the shower/bath or whatever, put some moisturizers on it, & use lotion too. Do that everyday & you should feel/see a difference. =)
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