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i have a crush on a girl
i am a freshman and I'm bi, but none of my friends know it. I have a crush on this junior who is a lesbian but i don't know what to do. do u think i have a chance with a girl that's 2 years older than me, and what should i do to make her notice me?
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I definately think you have a chance my friend went out with a girl that was a senior when she was just in 8th grade. To get her to notice you i would just say when you see her in the halls or stuff smile or give her a nice look. And if you get the chance talk to her and get to know her, then tell her you're bi. See how things go from there!
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when i was a freshman this girl like me. she use to stare me down like crazy which got my attention. it made me realize that the girl was looking at me in a different way. one day when she was at my lunch table i felt her staring and i felt uncomfortable so i turned to look at her and she had the biggest smile on her face and she was waving at me. not just a wave but a girly wave that you give to someone you think like. what i suggest is you make eye contact if she sees you always staring she will pick up on it ( i would) don't over do it though just do it enough for her to know your attracted to her. and smile tha'll be the dead give away....let me know what happens
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I think anybody has a chance with anybody wether they're a year older, younger, 10 years older, 10 years younger, whatever.
If you ever have the chance to talk to her, take it. Don't let any opportunity go to waste. Just start bringing up casual conversation about whatever it is she might be doing at the moment ( listening to music, doing homework, etc. ) If she's sitting on the bus ( if you two ride the same bus ) then just sit near her and listen in on the conversation. If there's something they're talking about that you can relate to, let them know. It'll show her you have common interest and opinions with her.
After time, maybe even let her know you're bisexual, because that could open up alot of conversation and show her that you two even have MORE in common together than you two thought. This'll also let her be aware that you're single and you could possibly be interested and if she were to develop feelings for you, she wouldn't be as worried or nervous to try and let you know.
And just keep conversation flowing with her on a day-to-day basis and maybe even suggest a possible hang out with her sometime soon. This'll give more chance to show her outside of school how much fun and how great you can be, and maybe then after a few times of hanging out, if you feel comfortable and gutsy enough to do it, let her know you have feelings for her, and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out.
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It's really hard to say. It all depends on if they like older or younger girls. I'd say just start up a conversation with her one day, or try to find out some clubs/activities that shes interested in that you might be too, and find some familiar territory so that you have something to strike up a conversation about. Or, if you want to be blunt about it, just let her know that you are interested in her and would like to get to know her better.
I know what its like going through the whole "bi" thing. I came out to my friends in 6th grade and they freaked, so I waited till 10th grade (2 years ago) & they were okay with it. Its weird getting used to the whole dating girls thing though, heh. But let me know how it goes :)
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Ehh.. It all depends on who she is as a person and if she's accepting about it. When I came out in 6th grade my friends were immature and didnt know much about being bisexual so they thought I was weird. but in 10th everyone was completely okay with it cause they knew that i didnt have crushes on all of my friends, or any for that matter.
Try and secretively find out how she feels about bi's/lesbians, and if shes comfortable around people like that then it would be probably okay to just straight up tell her.. if shes a little leery about them.. then maybe youll have to explain to her in a more emotional fashion that you're bi
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