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Too sweet?
Ok so here's the deal, I love my girlfriend to death, and i am willig to do everything for her, and just become so sweet when im around her. Everyone says im whipped, even her, so i want to become more asertive, that way i dont look so whipped. ya know? cause im kinda worried it's annoying her
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I think that you should be opinionated. Us girls have no idea what we want to do most of the time, so saying "whatever you want to do", doesnt really help. Don't fight with her, or pick fights or anything, just make some decisions. Make sure that you are satisfied with the relationship becuase if you are in it just to keep her happy, thats not good. Try and pick things that she would want to do, but are alittle unusual, because you never know, there could be something really great out there, that you want to do, but you don't tell her, so she doesnt even know about it. You may be missing out on a bunch of fun things.
It's okay to be sweet though, we like it when we are treated special, and you were probably just being teased, but you should talk to her about it, see how she feels. She may have some suggestions that are more specific. Good luck, I hope I helped.
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next time she askes you to do something dont say yes right away .. let her think you will say no. when you are with your friends dont ditch them to talk to her or to hang out with her let her know that you have your own life =]
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From a girls prospective there isn't anything wrong with being nice and sweet. But your girlfriend probablay just wants to see the more manly or tuff side of you(that turns us on too :D ) Or maybe being cutsie 24/7 has gotten her slighty annoyed. So my advice is to not stop being sweet altogether. Just maybe cut back a bit. Hope that helps!
~marsbars
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Honestly, I dont think there's anything wrong with looking 'whipped'. If she has a problem with it, than thats something she needs to deal with. She is apparently insecure about something and can't take when you agree with her on everything or do everything for her. I'm not going to say go ahead and start an arguement with her, but maybe playfully put up a fight, just joking around and see how she reacts to that instead of just saying 'ok ill do it' or something along those lines. If you're a naturally giving/nice person, then you cant really change yourself to fit her needs/wants. I say just talk to her about it and see why she thinks that you're whipped and what she would like to change to make things better for her. Compromise is key, but no so much so that you sacrafice who you are.
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