hey.... im not ur average person. most important lesson i'd like to teach every1 is that you should respect everyone no matter race color sexual orientation, beliefs or anything else. i love music and talking to other people. i give advice and get advice. hope i can be of service.
i can help u with anything...
i lve gining and getting advice. theres 2 ways to learn lessons in life
1)experience
2)ADVICE
suny
E-mail: sunybee0405@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: massachusetts
Member Since: September 2, 2006
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Ok, last year I think I went through one of the most horrible things a 14 year old girl could go through, my bsf(best sister friend) got really jealous of me, and mad at me when I saw how bad me and her (and other friends) acted. So, she did stuff to make me gain weight, and then at one point, she just stopped hanging out with me, and got my other 2 bff's to leave me. So I speant 3 months by myself and being my own best friend. Now, today, I hate myself, I'm super shy(i used to be outgoing) and I never talk to much! And I want to make new friends but it seems like I'm to shy too! I need advice on how to love myself and tips on how to gain a friendship.(I'm sorry that I'm asking for advice on two things, I couldn't find a place that looked right for hating yourself and stuff..) (link)
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number one dont hate yourself... ive been in that position and trust me i know how hard it is to be alone... but seriously that girl sounds evil... i think you should just make new friends and be happy with yourself! some stupid girl is not going to destroy you!! like my display name
destroy to create... you have to be destroyed before you can be created into something new.. and better. just be yourself karma works in mystiiiiirious wayyys!!!
but the best advice i can give you is
1) dont try to get the girl back... make other friends
2) dont talk about her to others, dont stoop down to her level eveantually she will feel guiltty.
3) make new friends! find someone that yo can relate to and you dont have to lie to to make your self sound intresting...
you sound like a nice person and i hope that stupid girl gets what she deserves!!!
messege me back if you have anymore ?'s and to tell me how it goes...
i really really hope i helped
pluus if you feel really lonely i would be happy to talk to you
i have a myspace but i understand if your creeped out over the whole stranger over the internet thing...
love sunny
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okay well last year me and this guy were really close friends. but during the summer we didnt talk at all & when we got back to school this fall he wont even talk to me and says he hates me. i dont understand how he could just like foget about me. i wanna try to talk to him but i havent had a normal convo with him in soo long i would feel super awkward. what could i do to try to be friends with him again.? (link)
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just say hi to him..... and try to talk to him about how his summer was, what classes hes in etc.. and if he doesnt want to talk toyou just ask him why, and if he doesnt answer that than sorry but i dont think theres anything yu can do...
personally i dont know why you want to be friends with someone who hates you for no reason... u might want to say this to him..
i hope i helped and messege back pllz on how it went. thnx & good luck
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Hello!
Ok, so our school's homecoming is this Saturday, and i don't know what to do with my hair. My hair is about an inch past my shoulders, blonde with red/blonde highlights, side bangs that go to the left. My dress is a halter if that helps. Does anyone have any ideas?
Thanks in advance [: (link)
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put your hair up into a loose, silky bun and comb your bangs out to the side. or curl your hair and leave your bangs straight.
hope it goes well
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There is this teacher, and she teacher earth science at my school, and i cant stand her. SHe hates coming to work, and she can never smile. SHe said she doesnt care about us, she just wants to teach., When we ask a question, she makes you feel like an idiot. She thinks she is so smart, but she is just aroogant. ANd...she yelled at me, because i proved her wrong. Can someone giv me some advice on how to deal with her. Thanks , trust me if you have good advice, i will be so grateful. (link)
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omg ive had so many teachers like those. what you do is be really polite. make her feel bad for beig mean to you. if you have questions, try t ask kids around you or researchthem yourself before asking her. if you really want to get her mad leave a note on her desk that says "u no it really wouldnt hurstto be nice sometimes."
or you can leave a note that says "this is god speakig: you need to either be a good teacher or quit your job."
if she ever gets you mad use those. and try to stay away from her. i hope i helped. lol
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there's going to be a GLOW party at a teen night
club. what do I wear? i want something not TOO covered up, like i want my legs and arms showing. there's not going to be any glow paint but there will be neon necklaces and bracelets
so what should i wear? (link)
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i think you should wear a black miniskirt w/a white tank top por cute half sleves shirt, you should wear a big black necklace and black hoops.
neon looks good with black and white sticks out in the dark.
hope i helped. comment plzz.
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i wanna do my hair like how miley cyrus has it sometimes and amanda bynes had it in what i like about you. i couldnt find a picture for amanda's but heres one like mileys:
http://www.celebopedia.com/miley-cyrus/images/miley-cyrus.jpg
anyone know how to do this?? thanksssss!
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hey, what you do is after you take a shower you can put in leave in conditioner and some anti frizz stuff and put your hair into curlers or curl your hair when its dry with a curlling iron.
before you cuurl it you should put in anti frizz stuff just like rollers, and then wrap it around the iron and spray hair spray on it while its still on the iron and then pull it off the iron. i recomend doing like 1 inch pieces of hair at a time depending on how big you want the curls to be. good luck
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ok so im 13/f and my friend (13/f) goes out with like every boy in the school and i know you like cant go out with your best friends ex but shes like getting them and dumping them. what can i do? (link)
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if yofur friend is being lke that and wont stop go ahead and date those boys! let me clearify that rule for you:
do not date your friends' ex IF SHE FELT STRONGLY ABOUT HIM (especially if he dumped her)
and your friend doesnt seem like she cares...
also u might want to ask her if its ok to date one of the boys she dated in case you really dont want to hurt her or something. if shes like what you said she probably wont care
hope i helped... tell me how it goes
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For Halloween Im gonna be a tree. its different and i was gonna wear brown shoes, pants, and long-sleeve undershirt and green t-shirt on top and spray my hair green. what are some ideas to make my costume funny and unique? (link)
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you could glue gun plastic or real leaves to ur shirt and take a simple head band and glue plastic leaves all over it, you can buy fakee leaves at like micheals wal mart or ac moore or anyother craft store.
hope it turns out good
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my period is being gay. its like split. like i have it for 2 days, it goes away for 3 and comes back for a day. whats wrong?? (link)
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nothings wrong... dont worry its normal for periods to swtich and skip days and all its fine and normal
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Okay so, I have seen these shoes in differnt colors like black, and tan for example. But, I can NOT find them in a store for the life of me! This is what they look like:
http://i11.tinypic.com/29ql9mo.jpg
Does anybody know where I can buy these shoes? I've wanted some for so long now, but I can't find them!
Thank you SO SO much if you can help! I'd appriciate it greatly. =) (link)
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i dont no if theyd be the same exact shoes but you could probably get vans that look alot like those at journeys or vans.com try this:
http://shop.vans.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10001_10101_302951_-1
they look just like those shoes and arent really that expensive. hope i helped
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My best friend is dating this boy who has been with 23 girls. They've been together for about 6 months. She didn't believe in having premarital sex before she met him. She gave it up to him a few weeks ago. He broke up with her a week later. He started talking to another girl. He begged my friend to keep having sex with him, although they weren't together anymore. She said no. He asked her back out a couple days ago. They started doing it again yesterday. Does it not sound like he's using her? He's this very munipulative type person. It's driving me crazy. Should I tell her how I feel? (link)
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yes you should
dont let your friend get hurt, and even if she does, atleast you'll know that you warned her. i also recommend personally speaking to her "boyfriend", but that depends on your friend... if you doon't think she would mind...
how could she not know hes using her?????
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I'm getting my hair done on Saturday. Cut and color. I'm pretty much keeping my haircut, but i want to drastically change the color. Here is a picture of me. http://myspace-972.vo.llnwd.net/01184/27/92/1184492972_l.jpg
ideas would be great. :] (link)
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you would look great with jet black hair it would make your eyes pop out.
btw u have really beautiful eyes.
:)
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How can I get my hair messy/wavy like Mary Kate & Ashley (http://www.gazette.uwo.ca/.%2F2005%2F09%20September%2F23%2FPictures%2F08B%20(mary%20kate%20and%20ashley).jpg), or Lindsay Lohan (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/evanatduke/Girls%20on%20the%20Right/ll6.jpg)? (link)
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when ur hair is wet put in curling mouse (i like garnier fructis' curl cunstuctive and herbal essences totally twisted mousse) and then braid you hair into a braid thats loose in some places and tight in others (this helps add texture) and then sleep on it, the next day take out your braid and separate your hair with your fingers (if your hair is still wet blow dry with a diffuser) and then finally put in shine spray so your hair doesn't get frizzy. (garnier fructisse shine spray) this is realy easy to do and these products only cost about three dollars each.
good luck and tell me how it goes
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ok i blow dry my hair every night after i get out of the shower. and in the morning i straighten it. my hair looks fine right after i straighten it but after i get to school its a mess! i get so much frizz its not even funny. ive tried almost everything on my hair. i use a anti-frizz shampoo from dove and it doesnt seem to be working. i want to buy a chi but i dont know where to get one at. does anyone know anything i can do with my hair to eliminate the frizz? any shampoos and conditioners that work really well? and hair spray or anything? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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5 words
paul mitchell super skinny serum
put it in before and after you straighten
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okay so im always so used to be the skinny girl. and lately ive gained a lot of weight. in one year i gained like 12pounds!!!!! can someone please please help me like maybe lose those pounds cause ive gotten really chunky and i wanna be skinny again. just please help..
*please no rude comments* (link)
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hey, i understand how that feels and i've been feeling down too. but i've been avoiding fatty foods, choclate, chips and such and i have lost a little bit of the weight i gained. everynight right before i go to sleep i do 100 jumping jacks. they sound like alot but once you start doing them you'll see thaT U REALLY DONT GET TIERD. also drink lots of water. and make some ajustments in your daily life. for ex. take the stairs instead of the elevator, try beeing less lazy and more active. get up more times when your watching t.v these small changes can make a diffrence.
i hope i helped and keep in touch.
i'll tell you how my diet is going and you can tell me about urs.
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i am 13 and i pretty much have alota zits, but only on my forhead. i wash my face 2 time every day AND use acne medication. its working well, but i really want something to get rid of them FAST or some kinda cover-up that will hide them reallly good. any suggestions? (link)
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try the flirt! companies healer.concealer.
it has salicic acid which makes your pimples get better and its like normal concealer. also try not to pop ur pimples and proactive works so well
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I've heard of things like bun up your hair while its wet and then sleep in it to have curly hair.
I want big loose curls, like those princess's hair in fairy tails type and not the kind of mature oldish tight curls type.
So is there any particular way I should twist or bun my hair with a scrunchie to get those big loose curls?
PS Dun suggest curling irons...It spoils the hair. (link)
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after your doe with a shower put some leave in conditioner or anti- frizz serum into ur hair. braid your hair into one big tight braid and go to sleep. when you wake up blow dry your hair, and then take out the braid. i suggest not brushing it to make the curls last longer and adding a little hairspray.
also i put in garnier fructis curl constructive mouse before i do this. works well. and its only like $3
hope i helped
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I just saw a question about smokey eyes, and I remembered that I have been wanting to ask this for a while but forgot about it. How do I use makeup to get smokey eyes? I've seen them on TV and stuff, but I can't figure out how to get them. I think they look awesome.
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try a mouse eyeshadow thats reALLYS easy to smudge. over do your mascara and keep your lips light.
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I like this guy at work. I really like him. I want to tell him how much I like him, but I am not sure how to go about it. He told two of my female coworker friends that he likes me and that he wants to ask me out. I wish he would. Most of the time when I am around him, he acts soo far away and indifferent, that I can never find the appropriate time to ask him. Some days he is really talkative, whistles at me, asks for hugs and flirts with me. Other days it seems he is ten miles away. He is 27 and he has a kid and an ex-girlfriend ( the kid's mom ), who broke up with him five months ago after spending all the money he got from an auto accident insurance settlement. He talks about her alot, and I know he misses her. I got to meet her -- she is totally dirty, fat, and ugly! I never could have immagined him with anyone like her! He would look good with someone like me. I put in my two weeks notice at this job because a bigger opportunity has presented itself to me, but now feel like what we might have will be even more obscure after we no longer have the coworker relationship thing going on. I guess I have a few questions. One, I have a university education in progress -- he has a high school diploma: Does this really matter? Two, does he like me/is he shy/does he want sex only? Three, and most important, what should I do!? (link)
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trust your heart if you really like him. just tell him. see what he does. and if he just wants sex.you can tell. and then i'd say slap him across the face and kick him where it hurts and i dont think the university thing matters.u have 2 choices.
1) go out with him. you might get hurt. you might love it.
2)play safe and stay out of his way.
but i really think that just to be sure about the sex thing go out with him atleast 4 or five times before sex.
good luck
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Well, you see, I have a really messed up mom. She tries to make me and my sister hate my dad. They are divorced. And she is making are lives suck because she wants to make my dad mad. I think she smokes, but she supposedly quit like 2 years ago and shes been smoking behind our backs. And I have no idea what I should do. (link)
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tell your dad what shes trying to do is you have a councler tell her. otherwise just talk to your mom. or some other relative or friend u trust.
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