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Friends
Ok, last year I think I went through one of the most horrible things a 14 year old girl could go through, my bsf(best sister friend) got really jealous of me, and mad at me when I saw how bad me and her (and other friends) acted. So, she did stuff to make me gain weight, and then at one point, she just stopped hanging out with me, and got my other 2 bff's to leave me. So I speant 3 months by myself and being my own best friend. Now, today, I hate myself, I'm super shy(i used to be outgoing) and I never talk to much! And I want to make new friends but it seems like I'm to shy too! I need advice on how to love myself and tips on how to gain a friendship.(I'm sorry that I'm asking for advice on two things, I couldn't find a place that looked right for hating yourself and stuff..)
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Wow, you have the same problem as me! Except I have found my own way, I have become a One-friend-girl. I become best friends with one girl who I've known awhile and get stuck to her. But I'm gradually getting over it. I'm not sure if the girl who did it was jealous but she did alright. Tips:
1) Talk to random people.
2) Be yourself.
3) Smile!
4) Don't get to cocky talking to random people
5) I'm an idiot, and you don't really NEED to listen to me, but... oh nevermind.
6) If you don't raise your hand much in class, start. It'll give the impression your more outgoing and aren't to scared to be wrong, and if you get it right, smile.
Thats all I have right now.
*~*~*~*~Don't be shy*~*~*~*~
-shygirl66
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number one dont hate yourself... ive been in that position and trust me i know how hard it is to be alone... but seriously that girl sounds evil... i think you should just make new friends and be happy with yourself! some stupid girl is not going to destroy you!! like my display name
destroy to create... you have to be destroyed before you can be created into something new.. and better. just be yourself karma works in mystiiiiirious wayyys!!!
but the best advice i can give you is
1) dont try to get the girl back... make other friends
2) dont talk about her to others, dont stoop down to her level eveantually she will feel guiltty.
3) make new friends! find someone that yo can relate to and you dont have to lie to to make your self sound intresting...
you sound like a nice person and i hope that stupid girl gets what she deserves!!!
messege me back if you have anymore ?'s and to tell me how it goes...
i really really hope i helped
pluus if you feel really lonely i would be happy to talk to you
i have a myspace but i understand if your creeped out over the whole stranger over the internet thing...
love sunny
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I don't really get how your friend can make you gain weight but whatever. Your friend got jealous and she basically tried to lower your self confidence. If you want to let her have it her way, just continue with your life but you need to prove this girl wrong. Go out there and be a new spontaneous person. Say hi to people in your class. Talk with random people about different subjects. Get people's screen names and such.
Don't be afraid of who you are. People like people who are confident so go out there and have fun =]
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