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Can't get it in
My boyfriend and I are both virgins. we are in love and ready to have sex. We tried to have sex last night but the problem was he just couldn't get his penis inside of me. I guess I was just too tight. is there anything i can do to make it easier for him to put it in? and is this abnormal? what position is best for sex the first time and would be easiest for him to get it inside of me?
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I had the same problem
Too be honest, Its not a case of using Lubricant or letting him 'Finger you'
Its because you are not ready.
You are tensing up because your frightened and are not really deep down ready for the commitment.
When the time comes you will find it naturally glides in because you are much more relaxed.
And dont let someone push you because im telling you now, You will regret it , if you dont do it with the one you want too .
I know I certainly do =(
Love LittleMooCow <3<3
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basically oyu should let him finger you alot to loosen you up && then try you on top.
<3 gerilynn
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make sure you are well relaxed & lubricated enough before he trys to put it in you. if you can't get wet, buy some KY Jelly. that's what i had to do. it's easier to get in if you are on top, but it hurts less if he is. it's not abnormal.
[EDIT] Lubricant CAN be a big problem when both are virgins. Someone said it will just 'naturally glide in' If you are relaxed, than yes. That may be the case. A lot of women are just naturally nervous though. Meaning they will tense up and that's completely normal. They were right, don't let someone pressure you into sex, but if you say you are ready, than you are. YOU don't let anyone tell you that you aren't. KY Jelly is sometimes needed, or else it wouldn't be put on the market. Some girls are just tensed up because of nerves. Also, some girls are just petite, making it even harder. Even the girls that are having a hard time lossening up, can be ready for sex. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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