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Can't have an orgasm
I've had quite a few guys finger me, and I can never orgasm with a guy. I masturbate a lot and always have an orgasm myself. Is something wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to make it easier to have an orgasm from a guy fingering me?
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you just need to relax.fantisize if you have to while he is fingering you. It might also just be something that you need to work at. Sometimes you just wont have an orgasm unless you do it enough. Some girls just dont have orgasms.
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The more you think about it and put all your focus on it, the less of a chance there is of it happening. It's ok if you don't have an orgasm from a guy fingering you. If you can accept that, you may just end up having one when you don't expect it. The only thing you can do to help, is talk to the guy and tell him how he could do it better. Good luck. :)
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communication. tell the guys what you like and what turns you on. if hes just randomly messing around down there and doesnt know what you like it's not gonna get you anywhere. you make think it's embarrasing or something but it'll help you out lots
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