Member Since: November 1, 2006
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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do? (link)
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i havent lost my virginity. but when i first made out thats alll i ever wanted to do makeout with every guy that was hot..so i did. but i wasnt very open to people that i went around doing this for the first two months. dont enounce that u do this to everyone
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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, but yeah. We were going out for about 2 months, and this guy who is Junior, told me that he has a "crush" on me, and everybody now thinks that I broke up with my ex for this guy. The truth is, I didn't, and he told me this at a party, and everybody was playing spin the bottle, and then I landed on him, so he kissed me, and I was like: WTF. But, my ex found out about this and called me a whore yesterday, while I was out for Halloween. And now, the guy who is a junior said that he'd "go after" this kid, and I'm kinda... Happy about it.
I know it sounds bad, but this junior is said to ask me out, I figure he's kinda violent, but he's really nice to me. And what should I do about the "whore" thing? (link)
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I think If this junior guy is really nice you should go out with him. Only if you like him though. As for the whore thing..as long as you know its not true..who really gives. Violence will get you and this "junior" in trouble. Dont do it..things will get worse
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okay i think i need to see a counselor but i have no way to tell my mom..she has suggested it a couple of times but i never said yeah and so i think i seriously need to see one and i think i have depresssion. anyways i have thought a lot about suicide and i cant take any more problems in my life it's just all going down hill and school just sucks and my friends are kind of annoying me and i think they just bring more problems from me...well some...not a couple though. also i have this temptation just to start up drugs thinking it'll make me feel better...but something has always stopped me from the rugs and killing myself. also i really like being alone a lot and not hanging out with people. i only like hanging out with one of my friends other than that i cant even share my problems with my friends. another thing thats wrong with me is that i always tend to blame everything on myself and i cant help that...then if i blame one thing on me i just bust out crying cause i think about every other thing that i have done wrong in my life. so i guess i think i have no use in life bcause i cant do anything right in life and everybody seems to yell at me....and i hate it when people tell me i dont talk much in school...i dont feel like talking and then i get all upset...and i guess im just asking you all if it sounds like i suffering from anything and ways to tell my mom about a counselor. btw i have cut myself a couple of times but i dont like that so i just use a rubberband on my arm to take away the pain. and if it helps i am 15/female. thank you a bunch for any help on this (link)
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ok! i read what you wrote and i can totally relate to you! I was in your situation about a year ago. Everybody was mean to me, all my parents did was yell at me, i was failing, everything was going wrong. I didnt want to kill myself as much as i thought my life sucked. I knew eventually i would get away from it all and things would get better. Well it did I became much more open to myself. And i tried being EXTREMELY nice to people..like ass kissing nice. I made so many friends at a camp..got a boyfriend..my grades improved..as for my paarents..they'll always be the same..lol but just hang in there I know things will get better for you eventually just dont throw your life away in drugs, death, or cutting. Or u will be prone to that and get even more depressed.
Talk to me whenever
Katie Ann
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