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uggg...i seriously need help...please read
okay i think i need to see a counselor but i have no way to tell my mom..she has suggested it a couple of times but i never said yeah and so i think i seriously need to see one and i think i have depresssion. anyways i have thought a lot about suicide and i cant take any more problems in my life it's just all going down hill and school just sucks and my friends are kind of annoying me and i think they just bring more problems from me...well some...not a couple though. also i have this temptation just to start up drugs thinking it'll make me feel better...but something has always stopped me from the rugs and killing myself. also i really like being alone a lot and not hanging out with people. i only like hanging out with one of my friends other than that i cant even share my problems with my friends. another thing thats wrong with me is that i always tend to blame everything on myself and i cant help that...then if i blame one thing on me i just bust out crying cause i think about every other thing that i have done wrong in my life. so i guess i think i have no use in life bcause i cant do anything right in life and everybody seems to yell at me....and i hate it when people tell me i dont talk much in school...i dont feel like talking and then i get all upset...and i guess im just asking you all if it sounds like i suffering from anything and ways to tell my mom about a counselor. btw i have cut myself a couple of times but i dont like that so i just use a rubberband on my arm to take away the pain. and if it helps i am 15/female. thank you a bunch for any help on this
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First thing- suicide is NOT answer
Second- neither is drugs
Suicide is a permanent "solution" to a temporary problem and drugs will just make you feel even more crappy after the high is over. if your friends realyl are bringing you down, then don't hang with them.
seeing a counselor is definitely something you should look into. next time your mom asks, say yes. actually, don't even wait for her to ask.
also, go to a doctor and see if he recommends any antidepression medicine.
whatever you do, don't hill yourself.
you're only 15!!
you're life is just beginning, take it from a 14 year old.
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(I'm 15/f also)Yeah you are going through depression and I'm still dealing with mine after like a year. A year ago nothing seemed to be going my way and I was the kid everybody least expected to try and commit suicide, but I did (I overdosed). I thought my thoughts about suicide were completley normal and that you know everybody thought of it at one time or another...I was wrong of course. For some parents (like my mom) it's hard for them to accept that there is anything wrong with their kids and that they are some perfect child. Yes but you should talk to a counselor. When I overdosed I ended up in a psych ward(I was terrified!) with all these other teens who had tried to commit suicide. You have a chance now to avoid hitting rock bottom. We're a lot alike. Another thing that just made me worse was my perfectionism. I wrote a lot during my depression and now that I'm doing better and go back and look at what I wrote..it scares me. If you need someone to talk to my email's on my advice column and my yahoo i.d. is superfizzysodapop@sbcglobal.net. The whole thing with depression is that you never want to do anything anymore and you think your life has no point..if you continue to feel this way make sure you talk to someone, or me!
Hope I helped
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ok! i read what you wrote and i can totally relate to you! I was in your situation about a year ago. Everybody was mean to me, all my parents did was yell at me, i was failing, everything was going wrong. I didnt want to kill myself as much as i thought my life sucked. I knew eventually i would get away from it all and things would get better. Well it did I became much more open to myself. And i tried being EXTREMELY nice to people..like ass kissing nice. I made so many friends at a camp..got a boyfriend..my grades improved..as for my paarents..they'll always be the same..lol but just hang in there I know things will get better for you eventually just dont throw your life away in drugs, death, or cutting. Or u will be prone to that and get even more depressed.
Talk to me whenever
Katie Ann
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Please, don't even consider suicide. It may not seem it, but the people all around you love you and care deeply about you. You may need some counseling but you'll get over the need to bring yourself pain. just...please don't. hope all works out.
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I hope you feel better soon. Please don’t try and let others effect you so much. You sound so sensitive to outside sources. What could you of possibly done that has made you feel this terrible? Stop punishing yourself. You are stuck in a loop. You have to have the will to change your opinion of yourself. Instead of beating yourself down, try catching yourself before you start thinking of something negative and turn it around and say something beautiful about yourself. I know it sounds silly but it works. If you don’t know what those qualities are, go ask someone close to you. Also, when I was severely depressed, I found painting to help. It’s almost meditative and you can really forget your sorrows. The only other thing I can think of making you feel like this is hormones. Just give it time. Just know you are beautiful.
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