Member Since: October 27, 2006
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Last Update: November 8, 2006
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well, hmm... thanks, but like somehow i need to get rid of my best friend. she causes a lot of problems in my life. and if i get rid of my boyfriend my friends will come back to me. what do i do now? (link)
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Your friend sounds like someone UN trustworthy. Your boyfriend sounds like he doesnt really knows how he feels. If I were you, I would start making new friends. People you can trust. Loose them both. They seem like people who dont and wont EVER care for you the way you should. You deserve better. Hope your doing ok
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okay i think i need to see a counselor but i have no way to tell my mom..she has suggested it a couple of times but i never said yeah and so i think i seriously need to see one and i think i have depresssion. anyways i have thought a lot about suicide and i cant take any more problems in my life it's just all going down hill and school just sucks and my friends are kind of annoying me and i think they just bring more problems from me...well some...not a couple though. also i have this temptation just to start up drugs thinking it'll make me feel better...but something has always stopped me from the rugs and killing myself. also i really like being alone a lot and not hanging out with people. i only like hanging out with one of my friends other than that i cant even share my problems with my friends. another thing thats wrong with me is that i always tend to blame everything on myself and i cant help that...then if i blame one thing on me i just bust out crying cause i think about every other thing that i have done wrong in my life. so i guess i think i have no use in life bcause i cant do anything right in life and everybody seems to yell at me....and i hate it when people tell me i dont talk much in school...i dont feel like talking and then i get all upset...and i guess im just asking you all if it sounds like i suffering from anything and ways to tell my mom about a counselor. btw i have cut myself a couple of times but i dont like that so i just use a rubberband on my arm to take away the pain. and if it helps i am 15/female. thank you a bunch for any help on this (link)
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I hope you feel better soon. Please don’t try and let others effect you so much. You sound so sensitive to outside sources. What could you of possibly done that has made you feel this terrible? Stop punishing yourself. You are stuck in a loop. You have to have the will to change your opinion of yourself. Instead of beating yourself down, try catching yourself before you start thinking of something negative and turn it around and say something beautiful about yourself. I know it sounds silly but it works. If you don’t know what those qualities are, go ask someone close to you. Also, when I was severely depressed, I found painting to help. It’s almost meditative and you can really forget your sorrows. The only other thing I can think of making you feel like this is hormones. Just give it time. Just know you are beautiful.
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How do you start off a diet? Or more or less a life change? I want to loose 15 pounds, I'm 5'0 & maybe about 130 pounds. I'd kill to be 115. But I also want to be active, So I understand my weight might go up from muscle, But I want to loose my tummy. I know that will take sometime, Im willing. How do I get motavied (sp?) and start a life change? (link)
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Fill your meals with as much veggies as possible and have a good source of protein as well. Example- like instead of having just plain spaghetti sauce, why don’t you add some chopped peppers, mushrooms etc and protein to it. Substitute flavor instead of fats. Example- instead of mayo on a sandwich try mustard or even hot sauce or a low fat salad dressing. Don’t buy tempting goodies, it’s too easy to snack on them. Instead, keep little healthy snacks around like fruit. Get plenty of sleep because fat is easily stored in your body when you are tired. Plenty of water prevents bloating.
Keep a positive mind!
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ok, do i want to know? (link)
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No, because it would be painful to lose your boyfriend AND a friend. If you have another very good friend around you for support, I recommend talking with that someone. Even if it is family. And Remember that you are beautiful.
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I have a boyfriend and he is really swet to me, when we talk but the conversations we have always consist of awkward silences. He never calls me, I always have to call him and I know we have a lot in comon because we are basicvally the same person and I feel good when I talk to him. He is always on my mind, but he tries to be romantic and at the age we are at for me it's kinda cheesy. I've tried not calling him for days but he hasn't called me either; it's like a battle or something. I like him but he is kinda boring . Please help (link)
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If hes boring already, what will he long term? More boring?
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I've been dating this guy for about five months now. I think we're perfect together & everytime I'm with him, he makes me the happiest girlfriend alive. He's like a part of my life & I really don't know what would happen if he weren't to be in my life anymore.
With that, we have this BIG disagreement.
He smokes weed, and I think it's REALLY gross. Ever since he met me, he has cut down, because he hangs out with me a lot, and he won't do it around me. He smoked weed for like three years before he met me, so it's not like he just recently started. I know weed isn't addicting, the only reason he likes it is because it's just nice to have every once in awhile.
I don't like weed because I just don't like how weird he acts when he's on it, it just scares me. He also says mean things about me, [I found his tape recorder & he ended up recording an entire conversation with his roommate talking about how unhappy he is with me!]
He said he's not willing to change & weed has been around a lot longer then me.
I'm lost, what should I do??
Thank you! (link)
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when you love someone, you have to love EVERYTHING about them- including his love of weed. Dont try and change somebody, it will always backfire and more then not, on the person trying to change the other person.
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my best friend is crazy about my boyfriend. he was her boyfriend first but they only went out for 2 1/2 weeks. he was her first boyfriend. she says hes the only guy shes ever loved. i think shes a little over dramatic. ive been going out with him for more than 2 months now. i love him alot and this is the most serious relationship ive been in, and ive been in a lot of relationships. i love him so much. but now ive been reading on my friends and my boyfriends myspaces. they both admitted to still having feelings for eachother. my best friend came to school and told me the only reason he hasnt broke up with me is because he doesnt know how and he really loves her. she also told him that i wouldnt break up with him because i dont want them going back out. thats not true. i love him. my friend is really mad at me now and i didnt do anything. she gave me her blessing to go out with him. i dont know what to do. they like eachother and my friend is telling me all this crap. my boyfriend says he loves me more than hell ever love her or like her, but how do i know? my friend was with him first. what do i do? please help me. thanks. (link)
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If I were you I would walk away, >>>RUN. If he has already stated that he has feelings for her, that’s reason enough. Do you really want to fall more in love with a guy that may potentially leave you? I find the best clarity is when you are not in a situation at all. How can you possibly trust your intuition when there thoughts keep making you second guess yourself. Also, by leaving, the question will be answered on its own. He will have to make a choice regardless. He will either pick you or her. But do you really want to know is probably a better question?
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