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WHY WON'T HE CALL OR TALK?
I have a boyfriend and he is really swet to me, when we talk but the conversations we have always consist of awkward silences. He never calls me, I always have to call him and I know we have a lot in comon because we are basicvally the same person and I feel good when I talk to him. He is always on my mind, but he tries to be romantic and at the age we are at for me it's kinda cheesy. I've tried not calling him for days but he hasn't called me either; it's like a battle or something. I like him but he is kinda boring . Please help
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Let me say something that goes for you and well...every other girl reading this:
it doesn't occur to every guy to call unless you say something to us about it.
Yes, I'm sure there are guys who really do that on their own, but we don't think about things as deep and often as girls do, trust me. When I thought about my girlfriend a lot and was missing her, at first it never occured to me that I should call. Was I a bad boyfriend cause of that? Judge me if you want, but 3 years later I think I learned.
Talk to him about it. If things are boring, then whats the fun? Talk to him about that too, let him know you don't like the silences. Do you have awkward silences with your good friends? Think about that one, along with whether or not you should continue things. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Talk to him about it, but don't flat out be like, "why don't you call me?" Be like are you upset with me (never ask this question too many times, trust me)when he says no and asks why say, "because you never call me, i always called you. I figured you were upset with me" Soon he'll figure he needs to call you.
*Hope I Helped*
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&&Good Luck =]
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If hes boring already, what will he long term? More boring?
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