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First-Time preperations
Ok, i'm a 18/f.
One of my guy friends and I recently excelled to the "friends with benefits" stage in our relationship. In the past week or three we've been inseperable, always flirting and kissing and such. Well tomorrow night he's coming over and we're talking about taking this a step further. I'm convinced we're ready, we have protection, and we've had a 2-hour conversation about it and the possible consequences. We're mentally and physicaly healthy and we both believe we're ready.
That aside, I am a virgin. What should I do to make this experience more enjoyable for the both of us. Will this hurt? Should I take special care of anything? Basically, what should I do to prepare for this?
Any tips or advice will be really appreciated.
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It should be very enjoyable if you are both sure you want to do it. it will probley hurt a little bit until your cherry pops, but after that, not at all. just make sure you guys DO use a condom and your fine. =] have fun.
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It really will not hurt all that much. You may experience some burning, but it probably won't be that bad. Honestly put the preparation aside. Go with the flow, and whatever is meant to happen will happen. Relax and enjoy it and do not overthink it.
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Well, make sure you have lube. Trust me on this one. If you're not properly lubricated it will hurt... otherwise, it really all depends on his size. If he's exceptionally large, then it may hurt, but it's not going to be unbearable.
Don't over-prepare, because part of the fun of it is not really knowing what's going to happen!
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Well my pholosipy is to save it till marriage...but i do understand
First off, yes it does hurt. Your basicly ripping the skin of your area. Also, You do know how to use a condom the proper way, right...make it so that it won't break and such. If not send me back a note and i'll give you my e-mail.
Are you sure you want to go through with this though...if he's not your boyfriend, i wouldn't recamend it. Unless your engadged or he's given you a promise ring or set a date...but i'm not gonna force anything on you.
You must remember that you only do this once, and there are alternative ways to sex.
Oh, are you both tested? because if something happens and one of you have a VD or HIV or something else...your screwed over, that stuff passes to your kids.
If your absolutly sure, post me back and i'll give you some tips on getting into the right mood.
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