what does it mean to be physically ready to have sex?
there is no physcically ready, its all mentally. if you feel you are ready for sure, then you are both "physically" and mentaly ready.
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ook. i really really like this guy.
i think he likes me, but im not sure... he smiles and looks at me, but we never talk.
i want to talk to him, but i dont ever know what to talk about.
what should i say?
i also want to find out if he likes me
well you should get a friend to talk to him, or get his myspace or screen name for you, and start talking to him on there. and after you guys have a conversation online when you see him you can be like hey, and gradually, you will start talking.
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Ok, i'm a 18/f.
One of my guy friends and I recently excelled to the "friends with benefits" stage in our relationship. In the past week or three we've been inseperable, always flirting and kissing and such. Well tomorrow night he's coming over and we're talking about taking this a step further. I'm convinced we're ready, we have protection, and we've had a 2-hour conversation about it and the possible consequences. We're mentally and physicaly healthy and we both believe we're ready.
That aside, I am a virgin. What should I do to make this experience more enjoyable for the both of us. Will this hurt? Should I take special care of anything? Basically, what should I do to prepare for this?
Any tips or advice will be really appreciated.
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It should be very enjoyable if you are both sure you want to do it. it will probley hurt a little bit until your cherry pops, but after that, not at all. just make sure you guys DO use a condom and your fine. =] have fun.
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i always get so paranoid at field hockey. like i feel like i'm the worst player on the team. and sometimes the coach puts me in a position that i don't know how to play to well and i feel like the other team members on the bench are talking about how bad i am. but then i know i can't suck because there were cuts for the team and i made them.
what can i do to stop being so paranoid about what others are thinking about me?
oh and if it matters i'm 15/f. THANKS!
well like you said, if you made the cut then you cant be bad. if it seems like the people on the bench are making fun of you, then just think, your not the one sitting on the bench. and the coach probley puts you in different positions that you know much about because he wants to teach you so you are good all over the feild.
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When you have sex, are you supposed to bleed?
yes, when you have sex for the first time, your supposed to bleed because your cherry is being popped.
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Hey I know you didn't see any of my other posts about my ex and how I thought he was avoiding me after I wrote him telling him how I feel and calling him and he never responded.
well I am not to sure of anything right now cause my Ex's sister phoned the other day (its been a month sense I saw my EX and his family) anyways she asked if I wanted to come over to their house I told her not today cause well I wasn't feeling to well and I had to do stuff and that I will call her when I can come over .......Does it sound like shes doing that for my ex so he can see me?? Cause before my ex boyfriend always use to get his sister or brother or his frds to come get me when we just had a fight or something... what do ypu think??? Could she just want to chill...even though everytime I went to his house I never really chilled with his sister or brother?????( i would hang with his siblings but it was very rare if I did chill with them I was always with my Ex most of the time) what do I do when I do feel better in a few days and want to chill.....should I call and ask for his sis and be like "you wanna chill now?" I don't want to make it look like I am only calling to see him or something...you know what I mean??? I dunno....what do you think???
Also just called his sister not to long ago like 2 hours ago and asked her if she wanted to hang out now cause I was feeling better and never had anything to do then she said she would call me at 6:30 after work so at 6:35 (she doesn't work far at all its like across the street from her)she came online on yahoo and I asked her if she still wanted to hang out or w/e and she never answered me, then about 5 min later she went away or offline or w/e then came back online.....What could this mean??? I'm confused....could there still be a chance of my ex bf still wanting to see me or missing me or w/e?????? what do you think??? I am so confused why would she want to hang with me one day and then a few days after do this........ :s
Ps. yes I still have feelings for him...I guess I will always have feelings for him
Pss. I just IM his sister and told her I can't come over and maybe in a few days when I am completely better... she never said anything...so I dunno...
Thanks so much gurls
-Avril
ive been in the same situation!
well for now just wait it out and if his sister does want to hangout with you, she will call you back if she does. i doubt shes avoiding you, because her computer could be frozen when you IM her or something, and maybe she was just tired from work when you called. you never know?
well, i hope i helped. :]
pleaseee tell your friends about me!
Allie.
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I just got my period today. It sucks because these cramps are killing me and I feel like I want to die. What can I do so the cramps don't hurt as much? I know they sell pills or medicines or something but I don't know where they sell them or what they are called. Any excersizes or something I can eat? The only thing I know about is a heating pad, which I'm already using and it's helping a little bit, but not much. Any help would be appreciated.
get midol from the supermarket or whereever. and eating bananas really helps the cramps.
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