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Iam a 17 female and i've had sex with several different guys all my boyfriends at one point.I have sex like 4 times a week with my present boyfriend and i think i may be pregnant what should i do? (link)
1. For the moment, stop having sex.

2. Buy a home pregnancy test and test yourself.

3. If you are pregnant, tell your parents and your boyfriend.

4. If you are not pregnant, and don't want to be, you can either:



1. stop having sex
2. have your boyfrined where a condom
3. take a birthcontrol pill

Good Luck! I know that you will make the right choice!


I think I have a crush on my bestfriend!!and plus im always looking at girl!their hair,their body ther smile there everything!!!.Last year people made a rumor at my old school that me and my bff were lesbians and we got really mad and told everyone they were wrong!.We are always hugging,dancing together,holdings hands!and some people well think we are lesbians!but the truth is that I think im straight ...just curious!and well I think my bestfriend is straight but sometimes shes a little to friendly!I need some help! (link)
Just so that you know, it is very wrong that people made fun of you and your bff. That is dead wrong! You are just curious! There is nothing wrong with that! I think that you will make the right choice either way (if you are or aren't lesbian or bi-sexual). Remember, it is always good to be curious! Good luck!


well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do? (link)
Personally, I suggest that you either find one person to have sex with, or, just stop it all completely. If you have to have sex, then I would suggest my first way, if not, choose my second way! Good luck!


on halloween(tomorrow) me and my boyfriend are going to his house(( no parent or anyone)) we've already made out and he kinda fingered me
i think tonight will go far and i want it to too.
i wanna have sex so bad..((im 13 and my bf is 13 too hes not really into "that stuff" yet.. i saw his penis and i showed him my boobs i have a D cup..yeah.. and i wanna know how to make things fast (link)
I agree with Nikker. 13 is a very young age to have sex. You are going through puberty. Many people feel this way during that time. I would strongly suggest that you don't have sex until you are older. Your hormones are probably raging because you are a teenager. Just think about the consiquences of having sex when you are 13, pregnancy, a hard life, not getting to go to a good college or any college. Remember, your posiblities are infinite if you don't do this.


ok so.. 15/f
i think i might be gay, but im not totally sure. i mean i can see myself with girls all the time. well last wednesday, my ex-boyfriend from 2 yrs ago asked me out, and just to see if it would help, i said yes. now i dont think i want to be with guys at all. i mean we havent kissed yet or anything, but i just cant see myself with a guy. but i mean i dont know, its complicated. to make matters worse, ive never even kissed a boy before, so how in the heck could i be gay? ok, i see how, but i mean its weird. could someone give me some advice of how to go about this? i mean should i break up with my 'boyfriend'? i mean im really not into him at all, i think i just said yes cuz a) i wanted to see if girls are REALLY what i wanted, and b) i was sick of being single. but i mean i dont see how i could not want to be with a guy if i have never had my first kiss, get what im saying? could someone just like give me some advice on what i should do? please? (link)
At your age, you are going through a time of change. Everybody experiences this time differently. You are not the only person out there who has considered these possibilities. Some people who feel this way at your age do turn out to be gay, but, you may not be gay at all. You should do what you feel is right for you, and not for anybody else in this matter.


Okay, I don't know quite how to explain this .. but here goes ..

You know how you can take a screenshot of whatever you're looking at on your computer (with printscreen)? Okay, is there a program that allows you to take a screenshot of your computer .. but that will turn it into a video, showing exactly what you're doing? I'm putting together a tutorial and I've seen people do it before. It would help immensely if anyone could help me. Thank you! (link)
Visit this link:

http://www.techsmith.com/camtasia.asp?CMP=KgoogleCSflash

Good Luck!!!


i have no idea what to get my bf for his birthday. we will have been together 6 months & he`ll be turnin 17. hes not into sports or anything, but he plays guitar and likes the Fender brand.. soo i was thinkin about gettin him a Fender hoodie or something.. but i think he's already going to get one soon, and i think theyre pretty expensive anyway, and i dont have endless money. i dont want to get him cologne because he got me perfume for my birthday so i dont want to repeat that idea, and i cant cook so i cant fix him dinner or anything. i thought about the picture of us in a frame but i have to get a picture first, and i want to get him more than just that anyway. hope that helps! any ideas? (link)
I am a man, so I know what all men want. Usually, they want something like a nice bottle of wine or something that involves both a picture of you and of him. Mabye a heart that has both of your names engraved into it. Both of you have a half of the heart. That would be very nice.


i met this girl about 8 years ago and we ended up being good friends and did everything that people that good out do except kiss well to make a long story short some compulated things happened and we stop talking to each other for about a year and recently started to talk to each other as friends but one of my friends is going out with her and he always talks about her and what they do together im pretty sure i don't like her anymore but for some reason it still bothers me when he tells me what they do together i know hes my friend and im happy for them but i just don't know what to do anymore cause it really bothers me i don't know if i still like her and if i do i don't know what to do because he is my friends girlfriend but i did kind of go out with her before (link)
If I were you, I would not worry about your friendship! If you still like her, then fine. Who cares! She is now going out with another person. That is one of the facts of dating. Just move on and don't think about it. And, if your friend won't stop talking about her, and you want him to stop, just ask him to please stop because it makes you feel bad. If he is a real friend, he will stop soon! Good luck!


My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. He finally has told someone (me) about what has happened in his childhood and how messed up he is about it. He does drugs all the time, drinks, smokes. He used to cut himself but he is done with that and he and I want to get married. My problem is that he recently told me that he wants to also start having sex with other people, that he wants to act out his physical attraction but still be with me. In his mind, he thinks that sex and love are 2 different things, that he can separate the 2 without any attachments to another person and the other eprson won't have any attachment to him. We got into this huge argument about it, him not realizing that just by saying that, it hurt me so much. Well, in the end, he had sex with the girl anyways (but he didn't cum), but now the girl is possibly pregnant. She says that she hadn't had sex with any other person in that time period but they used a condom and it didn't break. How could she have gotten pregnant? I am devastated. I don't know what to do. I want to stay with him, and he knows that I am hurt so badly by these turns of events. But I just don't want to get out of bed in the mornings, I can't go to classes, and when I do, I don't understand anything that the teachers say because I am so numb because of it. I love him so much, and he loves me, but I don't know how I can trust him again without feeling like this.
I don't want to be told that I have to dump him or should dump him, I don't want to do that, I just want to be able to talk to him and not feel like screaming at him. We have been through so much already, and I don't want this to be the end.
Thank you all for your time in reading and responding to this question. (link)
No offence to you, but, this man who you are with is a complete idiot. If he really wanted to be with you, and really love you, he would be only with you. I am sure that you won't make a mistake like staying with him. These days, there are so many divorces, please don't add to your future sadness and find a new man! I believe in you to make the right choice!


AWESOME GRADES FROM SO-SO SCHOOL OR SO-SO GRADES FROM AWESOME SCHOOL?

what's the best? see i was thinking if i choose a school like UCLA (good repuation right?) but since everyone's so smart there i'd get so-so grades, or is it better to choose a so-so school where i'd get the best grades?? like lets say i want to becom a doctor, what would be best? do they look at your grades, or where you got your degree, or both? does anyone know?? (link)
You should definetly go to the so-so school and get great grades! I know people who work at schools, and I know that they mainly look at your grades and your social life (clubs, community service).




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