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Member Since: October 31, 2006
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Last Update: October 31, 2006
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ok earlier i saw this question posted by someone:
Ok soo I have really frizzy, poufy hair that I hate, so I recently bought a Chi. I really like my hair straight, but the only problem is that my Chi makes my hair really, really flat. It pretty much just sucks the volume out of my hair. I was just wondering if anyone knew how I can get my hair straight but keep some volume?

Thanksss =]


what is the chi thing they are talking about?
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Try straightening your hair with the Chi, but when you're done, use big velcro rollers. Spray with hairspray and leave the rollers in for about 10-20 minutes. That should give you some volume.


Okay so lately I was on an excellent diet and a successful one
Then i went to 2 parties and ate junk food
and then when i came home i ate junk food
and gained back the weight i lost.I can never just eat ONE cookie or ONE scoop of icecream, it would be like a big bowl or 2 or 10 cookies.
Then after that I would move to something else.
I need help!
And also im 5'7 but im about 145 pounds,, am i obese?
I exercise alot! and I eat alot of healthy foods but like every week i get these splurges!

Any help would be great! (link)
You are about 22.7 on the Body Mass Index. This is in the healthy weight range. The healthy weight range for you is 119 lbs. - 159 lbs. When you get into BMI's over 30 points, that's obese. So at 22.7, you are in no way obese. Binging is a huge problem for me too. It could be that you are depriving yourself too much and setting yourself up to pig out. The body goes into starvation mode if your diet is too austere. Try sticking to 2000 calories per day - but spread out evenly over 6 meals. Eat every 2 1/2 - 3 hours. Try to have each mini meal contain some protein. This keeps your metabolism working burning calories, and your blood sugar level even so you don't crash and pig out. Eat before you go to parties. Plan before a party and bring a healthy snack. You might need to work on your body image. You're at a healthy weight now - maybe you're comparing yourself too much to models, movie and TV stars. They are not reality. Models and celebrities weigh on the average 23% less than the norm. You should concentrate on firming up, and building muscle rather than losing weight, because you are at a healthy weight now.


So im having a baby in a couple weeks, its a boy. I want to name him Aiden but im having trouble with a middle name. Any ideas?! thanks! (link)
Try giving your boy your maiden name as his middle name.

A lot of presidents have been named that way...

Richard Milhouse (Nixon)
John Fitzgerald (Kennedy)
William Jefferson (Clinton)
Franklin Delano (Roosevelt)


do any wiccans out there know any good love spells that really work fast and do not need hair or anything from the person you want to cast the spell on. (link)
Don't play around with that crap. There a thing called the Threefold Law. This is the belief that any harm or good that a Wiccan does to someone else comes back to hurt or benefit them -- magnified three times over.

You want someone to love you for you - not because of some spell.


I have a serious crash on this guy, and I think he likes me somehow, too. But I have bf, and he has gf.
We were both at this dinner, and nothing special (romantic) happened. We chatted and laughed with other friends there. Just like always. And end of night, we hug and said goodbye to each other.
When I got into my car, I got a text message from him. There's nothing special about what the msg said, just normal "good night" msg. But he never sent me txt msg before. And I just saw him 5 mins ago. Why did he send me the message?


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He likes you. He sent 'just a normal goodnight' message to break the ice - to see if you would be receptive to it/him.


i DK what to do, i like a couple of people, and every time i tell 2 specific friends of mine(no names).. they always start flirting with him and being all over him right in front of me, but they dont start doing this until after i tell them.. and it has happened MORE THAN ONCE so i know that its not ajust a one time thing.. i dk what to do..

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This is what is called 'cockblocking.' I'd call those two on their behavior. Refresh their memories about the past ocassions this has happened if need be. Tell them you don't appreciate it and to knock it off in the future. If the behavior continues, these two are not your true friends. Perhaps they're a bit jealous of you?




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