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FRiENDS?? OR NOT??


Question Posted Monday October 30 2006, 10:06 pm

i DK what to do, i like a couple of people, and every time i tell 2 specific friends of mine(no names).. they always start flirting with him and being all over him right in front of me, but they dont start doing this until after i tell them.. and it has happened MORE THAN ONCE so i know that its not ajust a one time thing.. i dk what to do..

PLEASE HELP =[


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marybethO answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 11:14 pm:
I have a question for you ---- Why are you stil hanging out with those 2 of you so call "friends"?
They are obviouly not your friends.
Friends don't do thing ON PURPOSELY to hurt others.

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MelLeDisko answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 4:43 pm:
Well, if I were you, there's really only two things I would do in this type of situation. I'd confront them, which would put them in their place and call them out, but would also create alot of drama and might ruin the friendships you have with these girls ( even though they're already not being good friends ).

But if I were you, I would go with this option: just stop telling them who you like. They can't flirt with him, if they don't know who he is, can they? Or maybe even as a little practical joke to yourself, tell them you like a really weird guy and watch them flirt with him all of the time, and it'd become even funnier if he would up liking them alot.

I hope I helped.

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icanrelate answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 4:20 pm:
This is what is called 'cockblocking.' I'd call those two on their behavior. Refresh their memories about the past ocassions this has happened if need be. Tell them you don't appreciate it and to knock it off in the future. If the behavior continues, these two are not your true friends. Perhaps they're a bit jealous of you?

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