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I have a thing for girls!
I think I have a crush on my bestfriend!!and plus im always looking at girl!their hair,their body ther smile there everything!!!.Last year people made a rumor at my old school that me and my bff were lesbians and we got really mad and told everyone they were wrong!.We are always hugging,dancing together,holdings hands!and some people well think we are lesbians!but the truth is that I think im straight ...just curious!and well I think my bestfriend is straight but sometimes shes a little to friendly!I need some help!
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Just so that you know, it is very wrong that people made fun of you and your bff. That is dead wrong! You are just curious! There is nothing wrong with that! I think that you will make the right choice either way (if you are or aren't lesbian or bi-sexual). Remember, it is always good to be curious! Good luck!
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well, its okay to be curious, and i dont think that you are a lesbian i just think that your bi-curious...and you shouldnt let anyone else judge you .. and i kno this will sound corny but only you can judge yourself and thats all that you have to worry about, beleive me i know how your situation is.. im pretty much in the same boat.. but just dont let people bring you down only what YOU think should affect you =]
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Well. Even if you have a crush on her, theres nothing wrong with that. You can't control your sexuality. It just happens. And if you do like her. Maybe you should bring up the subject and being bi-curious to her, but don't quite say you ARE, unless she shows interest in it.
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Hrmm, the possibilities..
You 'think' you have a crush on your bestfriend or you do? There is no thinking. You're either attracted to her physically/emotionally or you're not. The choice is yours.
You said yourself you don't think you're a lesbian, that you are just curious. Tell your friend the same thing, decreetly of course. Either way around, things will be fine, so don't stress. Experimnet for as long as you want. You don't have to choose anytime soon. You have all the time in the world to decide what you want to be, and there is no need in stressing over it.
Promise.
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Dont try to label yourself, sexuality is fluid ^_^ to put it simply - you are attracted to people you find are attractive. Try not to worry about it and go with the flow, maybe you are attracted to her -- maybe shes attracted to you. Follow your heart gender shouldnt matter. Sorry if this sounds like an add for gay pride or something LOL but I truely believe sexuality is something you cant control and shouldnt be stressed over.
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Who cares what they think? If you know you aren't, then who cares?
If they start hurting you.. physically that's a problem.
And if you like girls in a romantic way, then you shouldn't be embarrassed or angry about it.
Just follow your heart. If you're interested in some girl, and she's interested in you.. I say go for it.
Don't label yourself anything. Just forget about "straight, bi, lesbian"
Everyone is curious and you start to realize what you are when you get older and ..in that situation.
So if you think you could try being with a girl, you can find out if it's what you want or what you thought you wanted.
Nothing's for sure.
And if the hugging, holding hands thing, etc isn't bothering you.. then don't let people make it like you are.
But if it is, then talk to your friend about it.
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