So i am going to be my boyfreinds first kiss..
and i know its going ot happen, before you go there.
I've kissed before.. a few guys.. (boyfriends)
and he hasn't.
He is going to be 16.. well, pretty gosh darn soon.
&& he's pretty shy..
so im sure i'll make the first move..
((( we were talking about it, like kidding aroudn.. well, long story..but anywyas, i can assure you it's going to happen )))
my question is..
since i don't really make the first move..
ever. i hate it..
what should i do?
what kind of kiss?
wehre should i put my hands..
stuff like that.
:] please help!
Just go for it. It's normal to feel awkward. Put your hands around his neck or back if you are standing up. On the other hand though, if you are sitting down, put your hands around his back or not even on him at all. Have fun and just relax. Hope my advice helps!
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What do you list when you write a bibliography? Because the way I did it, it doesn't look right:
www.__________.com (website)
NDOANONFNFKFNSKF (name of web)
April.12, 20007 (date i foudn the site)
maybe it's in wrong order?
What about for books? (please write them in order)
thanks
There is an online site that does the work for you. All you need to do is type the information in and it will write the bibliography. The site is:
www.easybib.com
I recently had to write a major research paper and this site helped me out so much! Hope my advice helps!!
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Me and my four friends (we are all girls age20's) went to the swimming pool the other day and one of my friends didn't have a bathing suite I dared her to jump in with her clothes still on. she did we all laughed and then she came up to me and said "hey guess what my bra is wet" i looked at her and looked away and said "thanks for the notice i guess" and i saw her smiled.
why did she tell me that?
I got one answer from Yahoo answers, they said
"it's probably an innocent comment. she probably didn't mean anything sexual by it."
what does that mean?
How can that be a innocent comment?
I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like an innocent comment. She might have said that to lighten the mood or joke with you. However, if she makes a comment again or does something that makes you uncomfortabe, just tell her how it makes you feel and that you would appreciate it if she stopped. She won't know unless you speak up. Hope my advice helps!!
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So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??
whats wrong :[
Don't worry! This is perfectly normal. Its just your body's way of getting used to getting your period. This might happen a lot for the first few months. It might take a few months for you to have a reqular period. But for now just wear a pad or tampoon. Don't worry!! Hope my advice helps!!
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well i like this boy and he liked me back well and then i was really mean to him because i was in a bad mood and i never meant all that stuff i said well i never said i hate you ore anything i just never answered him :-( well so now he just pretends i dont exsist and everytime i look at him he looks away and i really like him! so does he still like me? please i really want to know! THANKS :-)
He's just mad right now. Just apologize or something and you guys will be okay again. Hope my advice helps!
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i am currently living with ym best freind. been that way for a month and a half. recently her fiance came back from out of the country and is living there now too. well i have been looking for a job but in my small town, jobs are hard to find. i have looked everyday and everyplace and still nothing. but the past 2 weeks she and i have been jumping down each others throats. every little thing and one of us flips out. like she flipped b/c ravioli stained aplastic bowl and i put soap and water in it so it WOULDNT stain but it still did and hse said it was my fault. so its a constant thing. and watching her and her fiance, they run around the house making out and have no respect for me at all in teh house. they run around grabbing each others "private parts" for lack of better words. and i am fed up with them having no respect for me at all. and when i confront her about what is bothering me (them making out bothers me b./c my boyfreind is currently out of state with his family.) she gest all defensive and says "its my house, i will do what i want i dont care. when your in love you wont carew what others think." so i cant get anywhere b.c she will coem back with its her house. so i dont know what to do i am backed into a corner. i mean granted my boyfreind wants me to move in with him in new york with his family...but i am not sure i want to give up my family...what should i do?
Even though it is "her house", she still should have more respect for you. She isn't being a very good friend. Try to tolerate it for now and see if she changes. If not, look into renting a apartment for yourself or moving in with another friend or family member. Hope my advice helps! ~Jenny
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Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again?
You have the right to have high standards. You aren't picky, you just want someone who you like and will get along with. After all, you are going to be dating this guy. I think that your standards might have been affected by your last relationship. It's okay though. Just be sure to give some guys a chance. Nobody's perfect. Hope my advice helps! ~Jenny
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Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents?
Just be honest with them. They are your parents and they love you. Im sure they will be disappointed but they will respect you because you handled the situation in a calm and mature way. Have faith in them. Just be straight forward with them. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how they take it. Good luck! ~Jenny
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My sister is dating this guy, and he has a really hott, so sweet, caring, brother my age and i really wanna go out with him...But I'm too afraid to ask him out. I don't know why I'm so scared. I'm shy...I see him every morning and I already wrote a note but I didn't give it to him....My friends say I should ask him out, but I'm sooo shy and I'll be too afraid to give him the note. So..what should I do? Do I ask him out directly, give him the note, or don't ask him out? Oh and what do I do about the shyness??
I rate high for good answers!! please gimme a reply!!
Just go for it and ask him out yourself. You dont have anything to lose! The results will probably be good. He might even have been wanting to ask you out but he was feeling shy. Just go for it! Being shy is okay. Its not something to be ashamed of. I myself am really shy. But even though you might not want to because you are afraid, you need to step up and take risks sometimes. Hope my advice helps! Jenn
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Ok well I have this really really hott boyfriend, and my friend really really likes him I mean alot! And just to be nice I invite her to go bowling, movies, dinner with us! And recently she's been like sitting by him, and on her web site she said that they kissed and held hands (but she wont say his name) I have discovered that the only reason she's really hanging out with me is to get closer to him and go out. Now i've asked my boyfriend about the haolding hands and kissing but he said nothing ever went on their just friends! And he wouldnt lie to me! So now she's lieing (sp) and trying to take him away from me. If you have any good advice can you please help! Thank you so much!
~Ashley~
You just need to tell her to quit trying to steal your boyfriend. Just get your point across. Dont invite her on your dates anymore and make sure your boyfriend knows how you feel too. You dont need a friend like that who whould purposely try to hurt you. Just tell her how you feel and be firm when you tell her. And if she keeps it up, then end your friendship. Hope my adive helps! Let me know what happens! Jenn
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ok so there's this really hott guy in my grade and i really like him (b.c. hes really nice too not just hott although thats a plus) and he would always smile at me and compliment me and say hi to me and i started liking him and all my friends said that he liked me and than my friend (without my permission) called him on my cell while i was in the bathroom and was like hey do u like Carry (me) like would you go out with her? and he was like umm i like her as a friend but i dont think i would go out with you and Allison (my friend) told me and i was super pissed and the day before i heard from one of his friends he liked me so the next day i asked him who he liked and he said he like Allison so i don't know what to believe. would you please help me!?!? thanks in advance!!!
and im not the most popular girl in my grade, but my friends totally is.
*.:~*totally confused*~:.*
It sounds like he changes his opinion a lot. Just give him time to decide what he really wants. Just keep doing what you do now (talking with him, joking around, ect.). Stress your good points. Make sure he knows how great of a time he will have around you. If he does decide though that he likes your friend then it isnt a major loss. There are plenty of other guys out there. And be sure to tell your friend to mind her own business. She had no right to call him up. Like I said though, just keep spending tiem with him. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out! Jenn
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mmkay. a bunch of people in my school are calling me a slut & lesbian ND I am so ajainst gays ( sorry to anyone ) and i dont get where there getting a slut. they say "im the biggest whore in school" how do i make it stop. casue i've tried to dress more down & not flirt with guys so much. but they still do it.
PLEASE HELP FAST. casue i think im a bout to bunch somone!
Just keep trying to dress down. Ignore the people who comment about you. If they feel the need to express their opinion, then they are low. Dont let anyone get you upset or anything because they are horrible people if they feel like they need to gossip. The important thing is that you know that you are not any of the the things that they say. If things really get bad, go to a teacher or the principal. Hope my advice helps!
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hey i have a problem! i think my family hates me.....grandma,sisters,brother and uncle to be exact. ( to help those are the people i live with )anyway i think i hate them to cause they hate me and yell at me all the time so i should hate them to!i want to leave the house really badly. my grandma says i'll be grounded if i leave but i dont care what should i do?
You might just think you hate them and vice versa, but you really dont. They are still your family and even though you fight, they still care about you. Try talking to them. It'll help. And dont leave the house! It might just make things worse! If you ever need to talk just send me a message. Hope my advice helps!
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I'm going to a movie with my best friend, her boyfriend, and his friend who I like tomorrow. The boy I like and I are good friends but I want to know if there are any hints I can give him tomorrow at the movies, maybe to lead him on. People say he likes me and he's been giving hints but how should I act tomorrow. Any tips?
Just talk to him alot and joke around. If you can try to sit next to him too. HOpe my advice helps!
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Okay... So there is this guy and back in October we kind of had this thing. I didn't know him that well but he was in three of my classes. He'd been talking to me alot and he told me he liked me and I was getting to know him really well and stuff and me and him and 3 of my friends all went bowling and stuff and well he was really sweet but I thought I only liked him because he like me, and I kind of like some body else at the time. Well I told him I didn't want to be any more than friends so he wouldn't ask me out or anything. He was really sad and he was kind of rude for a while, but then he started being nice to me again and now were good friends. Well.... now like half a year later, I like him. I guess it wasn't because he liked me. But he has a great personality and he's just kind of one of those guys that are like all around perfect... I mean A football team captain, FCA president, Class Favorite( that thing where the school picks favorite guy) Band president, Student Council president, really smart, and hes pretty hott. Well I don't like him because of all that, so I'm not shallow or anything, I could care less what he looked like, but now I really like him. But I kind of already chased him away. Now we have one day of school left and I don't know what to do. Help?
I think you should just go ahead and tell him how you feel. If there is only one day left then I would say go for it. If he is as nice as he sounds he won't let the past get in the way. He probably doesn't even remember that you turned him down. Just go for it and hopefully things will work out. If you have any more problems or if you just want to talk, feel free to send me a message! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn
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ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are very serious. does anyone have any romantic ideas/surprise ideas/ gift ideas for any day.... including our one year anniversary or our 10 and 11 month anniversary? thanks....
Get him a cd that he really wants or a gift card to his favorite store. Hope my advice helps!
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i have a friend and he told me that he thinks hes bi-curious or bi...and i told him that it could be a stage, but if it doesn't go away (like the 'feelings' or w/e) then that pretty much means that hes bi...
my question is...do guys just go through stages like this? like a puberty thing? cuz i know that girl sometimes do (like i did like a kagillion years ago, but it passed and i'm straight...for sure, lol)...but i don't really know about guys.
anyone plz answer it would help MUCH!
Guys go through some similar issues just like girls do. Just give your friend time to figure it out. He is probably at an age where he needs to sort out his feelings. Dont treat him any different though because that might make him feel uncomfortable. Hope my advice helps!
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hey finals are coming up soon and i'm not a very big study person for tests quizzes etc.... i was wondering what i could do to study like study techniques or tips or even ideas ~*~ much appericated thanks ~*~
Try studyin a little each night. You dont have to study alot each night, but set aside half an hour or so. Also try to get your friends together for a study group. That way studying can be fun with your friends. Hope my advice helps!
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my dad broke my coller bone da ova day but he says it was an accident which it was. but now when we have an argument he will say he break something else of mine but i dont know if hes joking cause he looks seriouse ive told my mom and she says hes just joking but she ent der when he says it because he dont say it round her. what should i do is he joking or what can any one help.
Whether your dad was joking or not, he still threatened you. I thionk you should try to talk to your mom again. If she still doesnt listen, go to a teacher or another adult you trust. You dad needs to know that he has to control his anger or whatever caused him to break your coller bone. Your dad needs to get help. I really hope things go okay for you. Hope my advice helps you!
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Hey guys....What are some websites I can go to for my Advice column? I want to have a cool background for it. THanks I will rate high!
If you go to the column setting page here on advicenators.com, then you can change your backround. That setting is located on the list on the left side of the screen. Hope my advice helps! ~Jenn
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