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13/f and 13/m
ok so there's this really hott guy in my grade and i really like him (b.c. hes really nice too not just hott although thats a plus) and he would always smile at me and compliment me and say hi to me and i started liking him and all my friends said that he liked me and than my friend (without my permission) called him on my cell while i was in the bathroom and was like hey do u like Carry (me) like would you go out with her? and he was like umm i like her as a friend but i dont think i would go out with you and Allison (my friend) told me and i was super pissed and the day before i heard from one of his friends he liked me so the next day i asked him who he liked and he said he like Allison so i don't know what to believe. would you please help me!?!? thanks in advance!!!
and im not the most popular girl in my grade, but my friends totally is.
*.:~*totally confused*~:.*
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So you *DID ask *HIM who *HE likes, coRRect??? Then THAT'S the -BEST- answeR you'Re gonna get. If theRe's someone you like, and you'Re unsuRe how they feel about you, the best way to find out would be to *DEFINITELY* confRonting them on this. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if they like you oR not; you can *ASSUME* they do alllll you want... but you'll neveR *know* exactly how they feel unless it's coming stRaight fRom theiR mouth. And if he DOES like Allison moRe than you, as much as it sucks.. you'Re just going to have to find it in you to accept AND Respect this hoRRible new by picking youRself back up, and keep tRucking foRwaRd. It's awful, but life WILL go on. Best wishes!! :)
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Okay...so your friend called him? Not you? Well, in that case I think you should definetly talk to him yourself. He might've just lied to your friend because like the previous person said, he's probably shy.
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It sounds like he changes his opinion a lot. Just give him time to decide what he really wants. Just keep doing what you do now (talking with him, joking around, ect.). Stress your good points. Make sure he knows how great of a time he will have around you. If he does decide though that he likes your friend then it isnt a major loss. There are plenty of other guys out there. And be sure to tell your friend to mind her own business. She had no right to call him up. Like I said though, just keep spending tiem with him. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out! Jenn
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Wow...if that wasn't a confusing story I don't know what is. Okay, well first off...I had a similar situation of where i would hear from all of the guys friends that he liked me, and when I would confront him about it. He wouldn't confess. Maybe the guy is just a little bit shy, and doesn't want to sound like a dork (come on who does?) So..I think that you should just give it some time and see what happens. Tell you're friend how you feel and maybe she can do something to hook you two up. (but no more secret phone calls...those can turn guys off)...Hope things work out for you. Best of luck
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