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It's the only reason she hang's out with me!
Ok well I have this really really hott boyfriend, and my friend really really likes him I mean alot! And just to be nice I invite her to go bowling, movies, dinner with us! And recently she's been like sitting by him, and on her web site she said that they kissed and held hands (but she wont say his name) I have discovered that the only reason she's really hanging out with me is to get closer to him and go out. Now i've asked my boyfriend about the haolding hands and kissing but he said nothing ever went on their just friends! And he wouldnt lie to me! So now she's lieing (sp) and trying to take him away from me. If you have any good advice can you please help! Thank you so much!
~Ashley~
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jus talk to your friend...n if she is trying to steal ur b/f thn mayb she isn't a good friend...jus talk to her about it tho...tell her how you are feeling...hope i helped
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I undeRstand wheRe you'Re coming fRom, and the best thing to do heRe is stop extending those invitations. I know you'Re only tRying to be nice, which is commendable of you, but she's taking advantage of you, and THAT'S unfaiR; you *definitely do NOT have to put up with *heR shit! She doesn't sound like a "fRiend" to be at all!! PeRsonally, I see two options: you can eitheR TELL HER to back off, and kindly explain why. Just let heR know EXACTLY how much heR actions aRe unappReciated. ---OR--- You could simply avoid heR altogetheR. A few times of this, and she'll tRy to find a way to question it, and you just tell heR "I've been REALLY busy lately". And that's *all you have to say. You aRe not obligated to explain ANYTHING to this giRl!! She is NOT youR keepeR!! Best of luck to you!! Hopefully I've been of SOME help heRe!! =D
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Best advice I can give...Don't take her along anymore. Ever. You need to let her know that what she is doing is wrong. You don't try to move in on your best friends guy. You don't make up stories about him either. Does this friend of yours think you have no feelings? Some friend! :)
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You just need to tell her to quit trying to steal your boyfriend. Just get your point across. Dont invite her on your dates anymore and make sure your boyfriend knows how you feel too. You dont need a friend like that who whould purposely try to hurt you. Just tell her how you feel and be firm when you tell her. And if she keeps it up, then end your friendship. Hope my adive helps! Let me know what happens! Jenn
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hey, you should really confront her about it.It's not nice for a friend to use you just because of the guy you're going out with. I think you should talk to her about it. You can't do much more than that...unless you want to yell at her and break your friendship. i highly doubt you want to do that. Just tell her that you dont like the fact that she puts that stuff on her website. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, then it most likely means he's your boyfriend. If she just keeps denying it..then she's not a very good friend. and maybe you should kind of slowly stop inviting her to everything you and boyfriend do, because that just makes her become more attached to you and definately your boyfriend. good luck Ashley && hope i helped.
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