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My sister is dating this guy, and he has a really hott, so sweet, caring, brother my age and i really wanna go out with him...But I'm too afraid to ask him out. I don't know why I'm so scared. I'm shy...I see him every morning and I already wrote a note but I didn't give it to him....My friends say I should ask him out, but I'm sooo shy and I'll be too afraid to give him the note. So..what should I do? Do I ask him out directly, give him the note, or don't ask him out? Oh and what do I do about the shyness??
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you should ask him out directly. notes are kind of lame. i mean the worst thing that can happen is that hell say no, and then youre rght back where you started, except now you know and you can move on with your life.
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Just be bold and go foR it. Take a deep bReath, and take it fRom theRe. Tell youRself "I CAN DO THIS"; haha, that helps sometimes!! The note WOULD woRk, but I stRonlyg discouRage this. It'd be best if you thought of something unique, oR at least something out of the 3Rd gRade [like the note business] TRy picking him a single floweR fRom the gRound and pResenting it to him. Aww!! He'd love that!!! That would *definitely make him feel special; and you want to show this to him, Right!?!?? Yeah, that's what I thought. Now go get 'em, TigeR!! I have complete faith in you -- you CAN DO THIS!! =D
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Well, i would ask my sister if its okay 1st. Ask how would you feel if i went out with you b/f's brother? If she says its fine-proceed-start talking to him more freqently and make sure he likes you a little bit b4 you ask him out. Then ask him out directly.
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Just go for it and ask him out yourself. You dont have anything to lose! The results will probably be good. He might even have been wanting to ask you out but he was feeling shy. Just go for it! Being shy is okay. Its not something to be ashamed of. I myself am really shy. But even though you might not want to because you are afraid, you need to step up and take risks sometimes. Hope my advice helps! Jenn
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i dont think you should give him the note. Guys tend to think that you're not confident, or you don't want to really face the guy if you talk to him through a mere peice of paper. I say you should ask him out. face to face. your shyness? Just tell yourself that you can do it. If you keep having second thoughts and doubts, then that'll just get you to be even more shy. just stay confident! good luck && hope i helped!
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It's funny because I tend to have the same problem with guys, but when I'm with my friends..I'm very energetic and everything. I sugguest one of these things:
1. Send him an email asking him out
2. Get one of your friends to drop the note in his locker or something
And for your last question: There really isn't much you can do about shyness. My best friend used to be shy and then she starting dating and it has helped her become more comfortable with guys. Good luck gurl!
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