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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

advice

Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\

boost your confidence by putting on some nice makeup...such as eyeliner or mascara...put on some perfume so you know you smell good lol just try lil things that will make you feel secure around him...or try buying a top your sure you look hott in

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OK i have been going out with this guy for a few weeks and we havent gone anywhere or anything he also goes to a different school. SO then i wouldnt know if hes cheating on me or not. Hes really nice and all but im not shure if i should dump him or not. I RATE HIGH!!!!!!

-thanks-

NOT SHURE

rumors arent always true but sometimes there can be a bit of the truth in them...so trust your gut instinct...if he has a history of cheating, he prob is cheating, if not, wait and if you keep hearing stuff...dump him( :

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my hair is layered around my shoulders at the longest. the longer part always flips out, and the shorter layer flips under. if i were to get my hair cut to the shorter layer would it all flip the same way or would half my hair be flipped out and half flipped under?

i'll rate high for good answers!

well i dont think anyone can really answer that because everyones hair reacts differently to different styles...but you can always make it go a certain way using a straightener or thick round brush...or even the way you blowdry it

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can any one suggest me songs
i like techno//pop//a little bit of punk/rock but not much and a little r&b
also some songs i can dance too

and sad/love/breaking up songs

thank ya i rate high

ashley simpson, maroon 5, mariah carey, oh and kelly clarkson "since youve been gone" is nice

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My brother weighs 170-180 pounds and is about 5' 10"-5' 11" One catch. He is about the skinniest guy I know. He has like a six pack, no lies. But everywhere I look he's overweight, like am-i-fat.com and whatever. He lifts like 120 pounds, no jokes, goes to the Health Club everyday, lifts on the Boflex... so is the scale simply not considering muscle weight, or does he need help?

Signed,
Concerned for my Brother

you're brother is absolutely fine meaning not overweight...that is normal for guys..and especially if hes tall, he might even weight up to 200...although the websites your going to might be measuring his body fat...which may NOT be healthy but doesnt mean hes overweight. Oh & I just visited that website AMIFAT.com...it called me margina and set im overweight ..which i know im not lol

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i have this crazy kind of hair its not straight at all and its not really curly but its really really wavy! when i get out of a shower and my hair is wet it stays down but as it dries it like just scrunches up and gets all frizzy and looks really embarrassing i try and put gel in and it kinda stays down but still stays wavy how can i fix this?? i just want the kind of hair girls like on a guy so how can i keep it straight permanently or at all?

use strong gel such LA LOOKS or even mousse...ask your hair stylist for advice*

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its finally hit me that i need to get in shape im not like super huge butim not skinny either husky i guess if thats even a word so whats a good way to start out to lose weight and gain muscles cant really go to a track to run cuz i have school and tons of homework so please wutever advice u can give me will help i rate thanks!

eats tons of fruits&veggies, drink lots of water, ride your bike(which is an easy exercise) and try doing easy exercises such as curlups

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how do you get your adviseinator name on ur AIM profile!!!!

edit profile, right click, insert, hyperlink, address: your advicenators page, text: my advice column

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im 14/f - 5.5 - 115 - i think im totally fat! i cant help it.. and the problem is .. is my hips!! and that leads to my theighs!! omg i hate them soo muchh!! my hips stick out soo muchh! and my friends are all flat on the side! and i think my theighs are huge! but they arent that big.. but the thing is .. is when i wear jeans my hips stick out alot!! and it looks like my legs/theighs are huge! and i hate it alot. i wear a size 16 in abercrombie & fitch .. and a 1 or 2 in other stores.. and i think im soo fat!! can someone please help mee!! i give 5's !! =]

stop drinking sodas & eating fries...eat veggies & fruits, drink tons of water..honestly it works! Exercise by doing squats, the wall exercise...riding your bike...tone your thighs up by lifting weights on your legs. and a pro for having thick thighs & hips are you can belly dance really well lol...*

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How Are You Sure A Guy Likes You?



i rate high!

if he is sweet & considerate of you..a guy doesnt have to ask you out to like you...he could be just wanting some...so if hes nice, kind and considerate of you, and is always complimenting you.

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need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high

well if you already have a computer - I would def choose the puppy

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I want to get my lip pierced but idk if it'd look good on me, alot of people said it would but i just want some more advice uhhhhh..
here's a link to my picture o_O

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/9d7f9fd3.jpg

lol i drew one on once and it looked okay haha.
but ugh its body manipulating and i just wanna make sure o_o

yeah it would look good on you but actually you know what would look better? a nose stud...i think it would really suit you...*

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is a 1/2 inch alot to grow in a year? im 14 - and someone has told me that you stop growing when ur around 18.

yeah it depends on diff ppl...some ppl stop growing at 15..stop still keep growing till 19...*

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hey hannah! i am running for student council and i was wondering if you could help me with something. i have to write a paragraph and i have no clue what to put in it! well, i think i might have come up with one but im not sure, here it is: I am running for student council because i want to become more involved with my school. I am very organized and trustworthy. I am also very reliable. If i make student council, i will not let anyone down. Does that sound alright to you?

my name isnt hannah but thats okay...say stuff like...IM running for student council to make this a better school for all of us...i will make sure all ur ideas are put into use...i am wiling to listen to any suggestions.

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ok this is for guys mainly, unless girls have any idea

what would you want as an anniversary present?i have no clue what to get my b/f. any opinions?

get him cologne..and depending on how long youve been togehter and how much money you got..buy him aftershave lotions...body wash...to go with the cologne

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Im 13 and im going into the 8th grade..and saddly ive never had a boyfriend. To me i think im farely attractive and im a nice person. I have gotten a few offers but there just not the right guys. What could i do to get a boyfriend i really like?
Signed: Single and NOT loving it.

the right guys come along when you stop looking for them( ;

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any ideas how i could overcome my shyness? i've researched and looked at /many/ websites... and it's not very helpful to me.

it's really pathetic. i say i'll do something. i promise to kiss or hug or just do something..

but i end up not doing it. i freeze up and worry if i'll do it wrong. and by the time i've stopped thinking that... it'd be too late.

it's making me feel worse and i keep telling myself that if i dont do anything... my girlfriend will break up with me and i'm sure she will. that somewhat motivates me to try.

talk to your gf and explain to her, its hard for you to be dominant in the relationship because you dont want to make her feel pressured at all..so let her know that she can take it as far as she likes...and she can be the dominant one..she might enjoy that lol and theres no reason to be shy hon...the reason shes with you is because she thinks your cute & likes you...so dont be shy...show her what a great guy shes with*

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ok, so I'm a Freshman at this high school.... well the Homecoming Dance is coming up and A LOT of ppl want to ask me....i dont hav a BF, but i like a lot of the guys that wanna ask me... this one sophmore asked me, but i dunno if my family wld wanna let me go w/ him since they dont kno him very well.... then there's a buncha lil' freshman guys that wanna ask me too...and i kno them better than the upperclassmen!!! so what shld i do, go with the older guys or younger??? and if i go w/ the older, how do i break news to the freshman (and vice versa)!!!
~So Many Dates!!!

go with whoever is most mature, responsible, nice and caring...and whoever you are attracted to the most(personality & looks wise)...sure the underclassmen boys can be cuter than boys in your grade..but you would never want to end up with an immature guy either

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Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either

Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself...

I dont think a supportive and caring boyfriend would respond like that but it depends on how you've been treating him lately as well. Depressed ppl tend to stop caring about everyone including themselves...and that could give him the feeling like you dont care about him...and losing interest in him. I think you should take some time alone...find out whats really bugging you and then decide whether your relationship is going to work out or not..(Even if your not depressed)

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I am fat. I am about 5'0 and I wear a size 13. If I measer my stmach of my vignia area ( if you know what I mean.. It is two inches, so I really want a flat stomach. I go to cheerleading every saterday & sunday from 3 to 5 and we work out alot! That is so exercise. I was to loose weight ( enough to get a flat stomch) as soon as I can, like in two weeks but whenever I can. I hate perople calling me fat so I want to be skinny so I will look good in a two peice. I will go to realy good levels like extreem levels (as long as it is not starving myself). I am also really picky, the only vegtable I like is corn. So help!!

Sorry for the spelling errors.
I rate high!

well to be healthy you gotta eat healthy...doesnt matter if you only like corn. You have to eat all veggies..all fruits...drink tons of water and eat in small propotions. The key to getting fit is not NOT EATING...its just EATING HEALTHY! So skip the junk...eat apples, oranges & salads. and work out such as riding your bike..and sounds like you already get enough exercise a week. Try doing curlups on your own though..*

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