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Boyfriend troubles
Im 13 and im going into the 8th grade..and saddly ive never had a boyfriend. To me i think im farely attractive and im a nice person. I have gotten a few offers but there just not the right guys. What could i do to get a boyfriend i really like?
Signed: Single and NOT loving it.
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This isn't a big deal. Why do anything?? But if this helps you feel better: I have many friends who are 20+, and they still haven't ever held a elationship before. Honestly, there's no reason you should worrie about this. Just because some of your friends might have done certain things does NOT mean you should have already done them, too!! You're only 13, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. Truthfully, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. However, if there's someone you know well and may slightly like, I say approach him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you or not; you can *ASSUME* he does/n't all you want... but you'll never know exactly how he feels unless it's coming straight from his lovely face. And if you'd like to spring for new guys entirely, just try going up to one and giving it your all! Just remeber to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have no problem approaching people, because I believe that I can do anything. I just push my fears aside and go for it. You see, confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. Even if he's uninterested, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you for just having enough guts to do this! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. =]
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Well your only thirteen dont rush into relationships i mean if you meet a good guy then go for it but always keep your standards in what you want in a guy that way you dont have so many broken hearts.. ♥ Dez
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I know how you feel. The right guy will come along eventually. Just start talking to more guys and seeing what you have in common with them. You shouldn't ever have to change how you are to get a boyfriend; the right guy will like you for who you are.
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the right guys come along when you stop looking for them( ;
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There's no particular technique to get guys. I know it feels bad that other girls have a boyfriend and not you. Trust me, I've been there. And the fact that you've actually had a few offers is pretty special. Do you know how many girls would kill to even have ONE offer? I think you should wait a little bit. Chances are, most of the guys in your school don't appreciate you yet. Would you rather get together with some guy who doesn't appreciate you just because you want a boyfriend, or would you rather wait a year or two and and have a great relationship with a guy you really like and who really likes you?
There's no actual way to make a perfect guy come along, but he will eventually. He might not show up this year, or next year or the year after. But he'll come along eventually. The best thing to do is just wait.
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Talk to the guys that seem nice in your classes when school starts! Just start a conversation about what they did over the summer and stuff! Hope that helped...love yah!
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take your time! i didnt have a bf till the end of 8th grade with someone i actually liked. don't rush, youve got a while! i know a girl that 17 and never had a bf. your fine! <3
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i understand how you feel but you got to learn to take chances and make mistakes. it has been told you learn more from your mistakes then your successes... give those guys a chance but remember ***you never have to do anythin you dont want to do or anything you feel uncomfrontable with***.. if you want to get at a guy you like you should first look at your choices and then which everyone you like you should first start out as friends and get to know the guy and then get close and if you still like him go out with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Being single is not so bad because you are independent.You could find one that is not only not badlooking but quiet,cool or talks sometimes and does not seem to conceaded.If you go out more you will for sure see a lot of guys out there and one will be the one you're looking for.But it takes time though don't get impatient.It'll be much better that the right guy is in your class and you will need to sit near him somehow.Like by asking the teacher to change your seat next to his.Or if that doesn't work think of a good excuse why you need to sit there.If you see the guy outside you could smile,say hi,go up to him,and start a conversation like asking his name first the he'll ask you his.Hope you get a boyfriend soon.
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Well, for one thing, you are still VERY young. I am 16 and have NEVER had a real girlfriend.
But, if you want to get a boyfriend you really like, you make the first move. don't wait for them to ask you, it does not always have to be that way. You can ask them.
-Steven
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Just be yourself and in time you will find the rite person for you.
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i have your same problem... i had one boyfirned who was a jerk... everytime i see couples it makes me sad.... you could just be yourself.. you will eventually meet the right guy.... theres someone out there who adores you!! just be patient
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