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Homecoming Dates ok, so I'm a Freshman at this high school.... well the Homecoming Dance is coming up and A LOT of ppl want to ask me....i dont hav a BF, but i like a lot of the guys that wanna ask me... this one sophmore asked me, but i dunno if my family wld wanna let me go w/ him since they dont kno him very well.... then there's a buncha lil' freshman guys that wanna ask me too...and i kno them better than the upperclassmen!!! so what shld i do, go with the older guys or younger??? and if i go w/ the older, how do i break news to the freshman (and vice versa)!!!
~So Many Dates!!!
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It's just a dance, relax. But if you want my advice go with someone in your class who you know well and can have a good time with. Don't put so much presure on yourself, it's not like you are picking a husband. Just make sure you can have a good time with whomever you choose. ]
go with the one you want to go with fallow your heart ]
go with whoever is most mature, responsible, nice and caring...and whoever you are attracted to the most(personality & looks wise)...sure the underclassmen boys can be cuter than boys in your grade..but you would never want to end up with an immature guy either ]
I think the proper thing to do is to go with the first boy that asks you...IF you like him. Maybe he can come early and meet your parents, or the day before. This is one of those dilemma's that I'm sure your mom would like to help you with if you can ask her. As for the others, you simply say so and so asked me first. Next time they will get the lead out and ask earlier! :) ]
Chill, it's just a dance. You're making it into something it doesn't have to be. If you would like to enjoy your first high school dance, I would highly recommend going with a familiar face. And as for how you should "break the news to the freshman"... just tell them. It's not the end of the world. They'll survive. You really shouldn't be stressing like that over something as simple as a dance. High school will be hard enough, don't turn something that is supposed to be enjoyable into a big ball of teenage drama. ]
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