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Too Shy
Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\
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Well, as me being a super shy person to, just go with a friend, it always makes it esier. and when you feel comfortable enouph to talk to him alone tell your friend to stay near by, (just in case) ;) hope I helped!
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Me too. I love talking to people on the computer because it hides your face. Just talk about what you like of your day. You'll get over your nerves. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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omg you sound just like me! :) well what i do, is when i first meet or even see a guy before i know i like i'm i act like my self around him, b/c i always think; i won't like him, or i don't know him, he doesn't know me. so then when i start to like them i'm already myself.
now when i'm on the computer i'm totally outgoing, but in school i'm so quiet so people don't think it's the same person on IM as in school! so when your around him just go w/some friends so you don't feel so weird. make sure they are outgoing or will keep a convo going if you start to panic or something.
i hope this helps!
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boost your confidence by putting on some nice makeup...such as eyeliner or mascara...put on some perfume so you know you smell good lol just try lil things that will make you feel secure around him...or try buying a top your sure you look hott in
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Look, sometimes guys like girls who are shy around them. But if you want to talk to him just think of as a friend for now cause sometimes if you think of him as your crush AND ONLY your crush you will get nervous. Just remember be yourself. Good luck.
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In my opinion if you were willing to, you could see a counsellor. Someone who is able to work with you, and try to help you build your confidence up to the point where you can actually talk to guys in person! I get embarassed very easily, which causes me to be quiet when I have something to say, very often! A counsellor would help you figure out why you are so shy, and help you work on fixing that!
Here are some websites that you might want to look at.. I found these (by searching on google) where people talk about overcoming shyness. You might like to read them,
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I hope you can find some of that information useful!
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