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ok...i need help!!! lyk in the movire thirteen...the girl tracy and her mom dont get along and lyk i sorta dont get along with my mom...and we fight over lyk the stupidest things and im just afraid that me and my mom are gonna fight as bad as tracy and her mom...and i never ever want that to happen!!!! also, im afraid the peer pressure is gona get me into drugs and sex and lyk smoking...and im sooo scared and i dont want that to happen AT ALL!!!! this sucks balls.

Maybe what you need to do is go do something with your mom and just let it be you and her and just talk to her i mean thats how me and my mom use to be and now were like best friends and everything yeah you might not want that and all but its alot easier to talk to her now maybe you just need to talk to her about things and with the peer pressure you decide you own things not everyone else yeah so what if you dont have sex or smoke or nething like that i dont and everything you always decide your own things dont let neone else do that for you, you have your own mind and body and your the one that controls it.
-Cass-

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okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?

14/f

age should never matter in a relationship you should only worry about how well they treat you and stuff like age should never be the deciding factor
-cass-

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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do

Just cause she does something doesnt mean you have to jump on the band wagon too i was a freshman in high school before i ever made out with a guy and everything you can do things in your own time you dont have to do everything just cause she does it you have to be your own person not try and be her.
-Cass-

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For the past few months, I have had a very uncomfortable pain around my tailbone.

It's mostly when I'm sitting a certain way. And I'm not entirely sure why and when it started but it bothers me.

I'm afraid this could mean something awful. My uncle told me that it could be cancer and, although he was 'joking', I was scared. What if it is?

Anyways. I'm afraid to go to a Doctor because I'm very uncomfortable with people touching me and, of course, he'll have to see my...butt. (Yes, I said butt...XD) Anyways...It makes me really uncomfortable to have someone, even a professional, touch me. But I'm afraid that if I don't go to the doctor, and it's something serious, I'll end up getting really sick and/or dying.

Thank you, in advance, for your help. This may seem silly, I know. I understand that I will get a lot of 'Just go to the freaken doctor, dumbass' but...it's really not quite that simple.

Thanks, again.

u might have brused your tailbone if it hurts and everything i have done that before and yeah it does hurt but over time it will not hurt ne more
-Cass-

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hey im 13 nd me nd my boy friend recently spilt but i still like him nd i just found out that he still likes me to but i dont no wat to do cuz my best (guy) friend likes me now nd my ex nd him are really great friends nd they both asked me out tonite nd i said i have to think about it to both of them wat do i do!! thanks in advance!

i think taht you just need to be friends with both of them ad everythign there are so many more guys out there and your only 13 sweetie i think that you can easly move on and everything
-Cass-

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I'm 14 and my boy friend and I have been togather since June 29 and its been good but there's one problem I live in the country and he lives in the city and its geting harder and harder every day to me cause we cant even talk on the phone cause it would be long distnace. Plus some times he goes out of town and we cant even talk on the computer cause at the other place he dont have a computer there and now he's down there and I really need to see him. I have a feeling that its not gonna work but I'm trying to hold on. I really love him. What should I do?

If you love him u can make nething work by putting your mind to it...I member i went out with this guy and it was the same type of thing and we made it work but im not with him ne more cause he went to college plus i stoped having feeligns for him but back to you i think that if you really love him that you can make it work dispite everything love over comes on everything like i said if you honestly love him and everything you can make it work trust me
-Cass-

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do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol

well see i have dirty blonde hair as well and im considerd a blonde but some types of dirty blonde are darker then otehrs but your still a blonde sweetie!
-Cass-

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13-Female

I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".

So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.

Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/

sometiimes your feelings may fade from someone but in the long run they are still there in the heart you way think that what you did at the time was right when really it wasnt cause you still had feelings for this guy and yes he might think that you took advantage of him by just going out with him for so long and him having all these big feelings for you and all but you knew that these things might happen where you want what you cant have now you may think that you want to spend the rest of your life with him and everything but i mean theres other guys out there and yeah he might be the one and you can see yourself with him years from now but what if all of this happends again you dont want to reget the things that you do in your life...Just try and talk to him again tell him that what you did at the time you thought was right but in your heart it wasnt i hope that i helped
-cass-

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hey i need help really quickly.. i have a digital camera but i dont know how to get the pic and like put it on the computer from the camera!?! if anyone knew that would be GREAT! xoxo!!

u need the extention theres a cord that you plug into your cam from the comp i have one but some are different if you dont have the cord then you cant do it
-Cass-

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ok so my one friend (lets call him shawn) had just broke up wit my friend (lets call her lucy). and lucy was realli upset. well one night i was on the phone with shawn for hours and i asked him who he liked now that he dumped lucy. he told me clues that led up to me! i was kinda excited but i needed to talk to lucy about it before ne thing happened. well i did and she said it was all good. then that same night shawn and i 3 wayed lucy on the phone. we were talking but once i got off i guess shawn asked lucy out again. now i am jelous of lucy and i have feelings for shawn. what should i do? i dont wanna tell lucy because i dont want her to get mad at me. PLEASE HELP! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!

Alls that i can think of for you to tell lucy is that your happy that she has shawn back but if they ever break up again you know whats going to happen and everything so i mean i wouldnt get in the mist of things again cause thats all its going to do is your going to create feelings for him again and its just going to hurt you and you dont want that...Just tell her your happy for her

-Cassi-

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ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??)

I 5 year olds body isnt that developed it wouldnt be able to handle having a child cause their bodies are so small.

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okay... i need to read another book for high school. it's my first year (i'm a freshman) and i'm enrolled in CP Humanities... i've already read my first book and i've completed my journal entry that we needed to do for it... i'm supposed to read another book. it has to be a novel and more than 150 pages long i'd actually prefer it to be 200 or more pages long does anyone have a good suggestion on a book??? no harry potter books... i hate them and it HAS to be a NOVEL any suggestions?? i start on the 5th... i think i can read a 300 page book in 2 days so just give me ANYTHING to read! i need good suggestions!

the other sister is the best book i have ever read its by jodi picoult shes an awesome other high recommend this book

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OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
-In love-

In a way I've seen this before and all your friend did totally backstab you and everything but on the side she might have made you the bad person in this triangle and everything she might have some how told your bf a bunch of shi and all getting him to like her shes not a very good friend...I think that you need to move on but yeah you could get back at her in an evil way if you could think of something but thats not right in the long run...Im advice try and move on the best that you can just talk to the friends that are really there for you and everything stay happy the most you can....
-Cass-

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Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla

First off im totally against getting rid of the baby and everythign cause i dont think that killing another form of life is right...Second i think that Ryan needs to step up and be a man hes the one that got you pregant and everything and sooner or later hes going to have to see the child and everything so he needs to be there if he honestly loves you...Third your going to have to tell the rents sooner or later you cant just hide behind baggy clothes because they are going to notice if you have to tell you mom first or something but your going to have to tell them that it has happend you never know they might take it better then you think...I hope that everything goes well...If you need to talk more IM me Untouched926...
-Cassi-

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i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?

U make the move just tell him to close his eyes and kiss him dont tell him what your doing just do it
-Cass-

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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx

-x- unknown -x-

Hunny by having sex with him isnt the best present in the world its just by you being with him you dont have to have sex with someone just cause its your one year and everything...For me 4 years same guy we havent had sex and our relationship is really good and is still going..But if you really feel like you need to do this then im not going to tell you not to but i think that you should wait not tell your 16 but till you really know what you want cause your a little young to be having sex yeah there are people younger then you and everything do stuff but i mean you dont have to have sex to stay pleased and everything you have oral too...You just dont want to have sex to be like everyone else cause thats not the point of having it...you want to make sure its with someone that you know will love you no matter what and when you have it you know that the will respect your wishes when havin sex...I say once again Follow your heart!
-Cass-

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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????

IDK sweetie ive heard things like this happend before and all but no guy i mean no guy should ever hit you he might have done that to other girls and all but thats an abusive relationship it could be that more will happen far down the road...Use your heart
-cass-

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hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie

hunny your normal and everything dont worry bout that stuff i use to and everything but if you go to the doctor and everythign s/he will tell you the same thing that your normal just dont be like my cousin 5'1 and weight 85lbs and shes 22 dont do that its gross just dont worry about it
-Cass-

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Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.

No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.

This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.

Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?

Thank you, in advance, for your help.

yes its normal, they are growing or your getting ready for that time or the month.
-Cass-

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Hey I was wondering what kind of facewashes are there for guys? cuz i dont want to use chicks facewash. signed
-Circus Freak

Proactive my bf use it ad it really works trust me
Cass

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