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ok...i need help!!! lyk in the movire thirteen...the girl tracy and her mom dont get along and lyk i sorta dont get along with my mom...and we fight over lyk the stupidest things and im just afraid that me and my mom are gonna fight as bad as tracy and her mom...and i never ever want that to happen!!!! also, im afraid the peer pressure is gona get me into drugs and sex and lyk smoking...and im sooo scared and i dont want that to happen AT ALL!!!! this sucks balls.
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talk to your mother about what is bothering you. She will understand and she should be open and able to talk to you about these things like pure pressure, drugs, and sex.
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hey i totaly understand your problem i dont think the movies are alwasy true they always dramatize the problem dont worry the only way your mom and you would get like that is if you totaly hated her if you love her dont worry about it!! also its your choice to start smokeing and sex try to stay away from ppl who do that and dont be scared just think it over very very carefully be for you do anything wrong.... hope i helped!!
JESKA*
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I fight alot with my mom as well....but in the end she's one of my best friends. It's that time in your life that ya'll will fight over anything! I'm in it now. It will pass though so have hope! And I think that we are all scared about peer pressure. I don't want to be into sex and drugs either. I just put this rule that i know I'm not going to do it and then I NEVER put myself in the situation that something like that could happen. DOn't hang around with those sort of kids and you should do great! **Mosie**
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i love that movie <3.. anyways i think you gotta takl to your mom about how you feel and tell her that you dont like fighting and that you think that you guys wont get along some day and tell her you dont want that to happen and that you love her and care for her no matter how much fights you get into with her.. and dont worry about peer pressure.. just say no its easy as that! smoking is bad and drugs are even worse and sex is okay if you are old enough!! good luck with your mom.. hope ive helped ;)
-xxoBrianna
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Maybe what you need to do is go do something with your mom and just let it be you and her and just talk to her i mean thats how me and my mom use to be and now were like best friends and everything yeah you might not want that and all but its alot easier to talk to her now maybe you just need to talk to her about things and with the peer pressure you decide you own things not everyone else yeah so what if you dont have sex or smoke or nething like that i dont and everything you always decide your own things dont let neone else do that for you, you have your own mind and body and your the one that controls it.
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It's totally normal not to get along with your mom and fight over stupid things. Maybe talk to your mom and tell her you don't want your relationship to turn into that kind of relationship.
As far as the peer pressure, just stand firm for what you belive in! If you don't wanna smoke, don't smoke. If you don't wanna have sex, don't have sex. Stand up for yourself and what you believe in.
Talk to your mom about your concerns. She'll be able to help. Moms usually do. ^_^
Hope this helped a bit!
-Siren =)
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i saw the movie and i kno wut u mean! i used to have the same problem..you need to spend more time with ur mom..wen u fight think is this realli wut we should be doing..and y r we fightin ova sumthin as stupid as this...tha best way not to do all that stuff is not to hang out wit ppl that do that...i took the wrong decision n now im stuck in alotta stuff...hope i could help! if u needa talk more u can im me [ blondii14697]
xo`amanda
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Hi. then dont let it happen!! have some bonding time with your mom and be like mom i think we've been fighting just TOO much and i dont want to end up like this one movie i saw so can we just well i guess start over and just bond for a change yah kno?...and drugs sex and smoking if YOUR choice...if you say no then no one can stop you but yourself yah kno? so it's your chose if youre gonna do it or not...and yes talk to your mom about it and if she doesnt listen write her a note or just get ur attention and talk it out. i'm sure your mom will understand because she was once a teen too...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
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You have nothing to worry about! Your a teen! No daughters like their mom's when their teens! Especailly not 13 or 14! Don't worry it will get better, just give it time. Me and my mom are the same way! Now about the peer pressure thing! Girly, u seem like u have a good head on your shoulders and you should have nothing to worry about! Look at it like this smoking just flat out stinks and doens't look the slightest bit attractive!, drugs will kill ya!, and drinking....well lets put it like this, I know how stupid ppl act when they drink, now do u really wanna have to call someone the next day and say "Dude, I'm sorry I peed on your dog?" lol. I mean come on!! Good Luck. Keep me informed! *-*Sonnie*-*
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