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OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
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same thing happened to me, twice. it sucks ass! lol! but sadly theres really nothin u can do but just forget about him as much as u can, try to see other ppl nd wen ure around him act like everythin is just dandy cuz u dont want him to kno that ure hurt nd everythin, nd as for ure frend thats not cool she shouldnt hav done that i think u should ditch her cuz thats really not cool! im sorry nd dont worry cuz u'll get over this, i did! lol! hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.
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Tell your friend u don't like her going out with him cause ur still in love with him. It prolly sounds stupid cause everyone says that, but trust me.. its prolly the only was to let her know how u feel about it. If she won't listen.. then just let her go out with him.. and go find urself a guy thats actually worth ur time.
Hope I was of some help!!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine**
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Hi. first of all it doesnt matter if you rate me a 1 i will still help. anyways...i would be friends with ur friend if she made a promise and broken it for ur ex...she's not a loyal friend to you and you deserve someone better then her and your ex. i kno it hurts alot cuz you were in a deep relationship but just keep your mind off him and basically whatever that reminds you of him...everything takes time to heal and if he tells you that he hates you then he's not worth your love...no matter what kind of couples break they never tell eachother that they hate them...i'm not trying to make things worst but in other words he could of used you for her...i would say take some time away from them and have fun. i hope i helped! contact me if you need. x3 SweetStar
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In a way I've seen this before and all your friend did totally backstab you and everything but on the side she might have made you the bad person in this triangle and everything she might have some how told your bf a bunch of shi and all getting him to like her shes not a very good friend...I think that you need to move on but yeah you could get back at her in an evil way if you could think of something but thats not right in the long run...Im advice try and move on the best that you can just talk to the friends that are really there for you and everything stay happy the most you can....
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This is a really hard thing to give advice to because its a horrible thing to go through. Your ex-boyfriend was very insensitive to get a new girlfriend 2 weeks after your breakup, NOT TO MENTION, it being your best friend. Maybe if you had been broken up a few months or something, it would have been easier to deal with them both as a couple. But right now, it probably hurts like hell. You've unfortunately gotten the raw end of this deal, and you can't really do anything to change it. I wish I could tell you that there was a miracle cure to this heart break, however, my only advice is to hang in there, and decide for yourself how true your best friend really is to you. Talk to her about it. Her motives probably weren't malicious, however, she had really bad timing. I think you should turn to your other friends for moral support and just get out of your house and get your mind off of things. Go to the park, the mall, or the movies and keep yourself busy for a little while.
As for your ex telling you how much he hates you... think of this as a blessing in disguise (if possible) he's treating you like crap right now, thankfully after you broke up. Imagine how hard it would have been for him to say these horrible things to you if you were going out with him. He isn't worth your time. Don't forget the good times you had with him, however, try to remember that you CAN have good times WITHOUT him.
Hang in there, sweetheart. You have me rooting for you to pull through. Send me a message if you need anything else.
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i been there before! its not easy to get over that your best friend is going out with your ex i know... if he says he hates you and doesnt care about you then try to forget him it will be hard but you have to try because if you dont you will end up misserable... and for your best friend well she obviously isnt your bestfriend now is she ... i wouldnt talk to her again if she did that because if she knew how in love you guys were and if she really was your best friend she woudlnt of ever done that to you...
**best of luck**
-katii-
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Damn.. I'd get Rid of both of them! These people do NOT sound like fRiends whatsoeveR!! You don't deseRve that, and theRe's ceRtainly NO Reason why you should have to put up with it!! Hope I helped! I wish you the best of luck!
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OKay for one.. i have NO IDEA what kind of person your so called "best" friend is.. but to me she doesn't sound like any type of friend at all! let alone best friend!.. thats crazy.. friendship is about trustworthyness. and loyalty.. and being there for you.. and she didn't show much of any. if she knew this hurt you.. and she still did that then shes not someone you want to stick around. Plus.. you should never date your best friends exes.. thats so wrong! i can't even being to explain!.. And about this guy.. think about it.. what do you love about him.. there can't be much if hes being mean now. Think about how much of a jerk he is.. and how you def. don't deserve the way hes treating you!.. 8 months is a long time.. i don't understand how someone can change so drastically like that.. who knows maybe you "best" friend had something to do with that. I say drop the guy and the girl... they both obviously deserve eachother since there both stupid.. and im sure you have better friends.. and tehres cuter and nicer guys out there.. who won't break your heart like that. if you want to get over him.. i suggest go out with your friends.. and just guy scoping.. or keeping your mind off of him.. or talk to a guy best friend.. and don't keep anything of his around.. and block his number and screen name!.. You'll get over him i promise..;).. you;ll realize you can do better....and you don't need his jerkyness.. and you will end up happy and your friend will get ehr heart broken by your ex and come crawling back to you.... then you can shoot her down..;)..
-hope i helped-
xoxo
good luck!
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well u have to get over him first of all. no guy that cared about you that much would be so mean to you. and no friend should go and date your ex after you broke up with him 2 weeks ago. find a new friend, find a new boyfriend who treats you with respect
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Well, um, you may love this guy - but hes a loser. You don't need him and there are plenty of guys in the world who will love you as much as you love them. Talk to your best friend about why she did this and if she doesn't have any reasons to give you then she really isn't that trustworthy a friend at all really.
Eventually, with time, you'll get over the guy. And you'll probably wonder why you ever cared so much in the first place!
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