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I'm not over him
13-Female
I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".
So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.
Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/
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whatever you do... do not cut... that is the worst thing to do. just write down your feelings about everything i used to cut for the same reason and i would do it every night... it got so bad that one day i took 15 sleeping pills and i nearly killed myself i was in the hospital for 3 days and sweetie... you're 13 years old yes it is very easy to fall in love with someone but you'll always get hurt in the end BELIEVE ME i've been down that road a couple of times and it's not pretty. just try your best to move on.. hang out with your friends go shopping. take long hot bubble baths. and my suggestion and i'll say it as many times until i turn blue but i promise you it works WRITE WRITE WRITE WRITE WRITE!!!! hope i helped if you need anything my sn's are xxxpinky615xxx or xKissxMex522x <-- that's my emergencys only SN or email me- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com feel better!
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sometiimes your feelings may fade from someone but in the long run they are still there in the heart you way think that what you did at the time was right when really it wasnt cause you still had feelings for this guy and yes he might think that you took advantage of him by just going out with him for so long and him having all these big feelings for you and all but you knew that these things might happen where you want what you cant have now you may think that you want to spend the rest of your life with him and everything but i mean theres other guys out there and yeah he might be the one and you can see yourself with him years from now but what if all of this happends again you dont want to reget the things that you do in your life...Just try and talk to him again tell him that what you did at the time you thought was right but in your heart it wasnt i hope that i helped
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wow..r u sure that ur soo in luv with him? becuz if u thot u had no feelings for him mayb nothing changed..its just that u r lonelyy cuz ur used to havin a boyfriend..n his friend is soo meen that he ruined ur relationship lik that..if u r sure that u luv him mayb u shud talk to him bout his friend and tell him that u still lik him..u mite not wnt to sey the luv n the rest of ur life..it mite scare him a lil bit lol but yaa ne ways and lik just dun giv up if u luv him fite for him do w/e u can..if u realli realli luv him then dun let go w/e u do..hopee i helped * . . KaT
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I think the first thing you need to do is try to remember how you felt when you broke up with this guy. You said you thought you 'had no feelings left for him.'
I know that I've ended relationships which were not right for me in the past, and then have felt anything from panic to depression once they were over. Whether a relationship is mostly good OR bad, it still leaves a hole when it is over.
This boy was hurt when you broke up with him, but you had your reasons. If you were to wave a magic wand and get him back, those problems would still be there. If he doesn't want you, the best thing to do is try to move on. Perhaps by thinking about him all the time, you are ignoring other possible guys which could be right under your nose!
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hey hun! ok well alot of ppl feel like they dn if they still like theyr bf. but next tiem just wait it out n c how it goes!! n jus explain 2 ur ex wut hpnd! dont guilt ihm into it by being like "o i need u..imma kill myself..." bc thtll jus make him wanna back off. n also..plz dont think about killin urself..its not good! 1 guy i knew commitid suicide, it was idk a year ago? n his ex gf is still in major depression...n its ok to cry. jus let everything out! jus sit down, n tlk 2 ur ex. if he wont listen, MAKE him listen haha. jus don give up. n if after a while he still wont take u back, maybe its time 2 move on. if its meant to be itll happen. jus tell him u werent using him, u were jsut confused. gl hun i hope it all works out!
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4 months listen i have been married for 2 years known my wife for over 4 and i was madly in love but there are things i am stil learning about my wife. you may love the way he looks and the way he acts but you can NOT know a person in 4 months. and besides that if you tie yourself down at 13 you will never forgive yourself i tied myself down at 18 got married at 20 and i still regret doing that because i did not get to live my life. there is more to life at 13 then boys
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look gurl im 16 i been where u been i thought i was in love...and one thing i learned is that love conquers all...and itf its meant to be itll happen...now as much as its goin to hurt if u want this boy back act as if you do not care ur not wit him...go out and have fun with ya gurls...live it up gurl u only live once u got ur whole life ahead of u...another thing do not let him kno u wanna spend foreva wit him..guys r terrified of commitment and thats prolly why he isnt wit u now becus he is afraid to think of commiting to ONE person for the rest of his life...another thing...when u see him act like nothing eva went on no drama nuthin u see him in the halls simply smile and keep walkin or if he is walkin wit someone u kno go up to the person he is walkin wit and hug them say hey wuts up a lil conversation and then just walk away and act like u didnt even see him cus that will get him thinking like "i thought she liked me""wuts goin on" and then he will keep thinkin bout u and then hell come to think why didnt i get back wit her...and who knows maybe by that time u will be wit someone else but im here for you gurl u need ne more advice u no where to find me :)
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