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i have a friend who is always complaining of being fat, but she isnt and she always says that no guys like her or will ever like her and all that is not true. she is a great girl and i love her to death. what can i tell her to make her realize that she is fine the way she is and someday she will find someone it is just a matter of time? (link)
Maybe getting other people to back you up will help. She may have a problem with self confidence... so you may want to talk to a guidance counseler or a parent. As for what to say to her tell her that shes beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have her. And that shes toog ood for so-and-so. Hope it helps...





hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee (link)
Try talking to your doctor or nurse. I didnt want t tell my mom either but you have to eventually. If you need to get that stuff you can borrow from a friend or when your out just buy some. But your mom is the best for support. She can tell you everything you need to know... which is a lot lol. Your health teacher (( if u have one )) would also help a lot. Hope it works





ok well when i was younger i had an agent and i did small tv things, and i remember it taking up a lot of my time. ITs been awhile since i have done n e thing involving tv and broadway, and now my dad thinks its a good time to start up again. I have been re hired and everything but when i talked to my agent she says i would probably have to quit a lot of my activites. I am involved with a lot of things right now and i dont no if its the best for me to do this. I really want to act right now and do this again but i dont want to regret it in the long run.

Plex Help (link)
I think you should go for it. It really is a once in a life time chance now that you're older. The buissness is sooo hard to get into, i know i was lucky. xD But if you really dont feel good doing it then dont. Just remember that those things will be there when you get back ;)

hope i helped at least a little....






Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf (link)
I think you should try asking her. Sometimes guys lie....but maybe he learned his lesson. As doubtful as that is. I say you dump him. Him being at a different school could make it easier to hide things from you. Hope I helped out!






OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!! (link)
If he has weird hours it could screw things up for you. But if you need a break from your mom maybe you could just spend a couple of days at your dads house to see how things work out. Try talking to your dad too. Hope I helped.







My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading. (link)
If you stop talking to him it'll only get worse. Maybe if you tell him how it feels before things get to serious it'll work out better. As for the gf thing... sorry he's off limits for now. Keep staying close, but dont ruin the relationship. If he feels the same way he'll figure it out eventually. Hopt it helps.







I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back (link)
If you like him I think yuo shud go for it girl. And if hes an upperclassman mayb he wont be so immature. hope it helps






this guy i kno i thought he hated me but evry1s saying that he doesnt i think i like him but i dunno if he likes me?
HELP
~Dani~
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Why dont you just ask him? Theres no better source then the person the info is about. But if you dont want him to think you like him, or know, then just be like "People keep saying you like me. Is it true?" and if he says it is, say you like him too, or that you thought he hated you. ;) Hope it helps :D






on aim i want some really cute stuff for my buddy profile i already have a lot of stuff on my buddy profile but i want some cute stuff like with my name on it or something. does anyone know where i can find that kind of stuff???? please tell me if i really like the place you tell me to go i'll give you a 5. i rate high. (link)
One of my friends Andrea does stuff like that, I do too. If you'd like I can add you on AIM to help ya out. Otherwise try going to QuoteCraze.vv.net








hi i hav never worn fake nails until today. I like wearing them but they feel sooo weird. Does the feeling go away or does it stay? (link)
Sometimes it goes away. It depends on how long they are. If it makes it hard to do certain things try filing them down a little. Otherwise you usually just get used to them after a couple of times. Hope it helps :D







ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off? (link)
Maybe you shud flirt back. But the honest, good answer would be to just tell your friend you like him. Maybe she'll understand. In that case, you should tell him how you feel and ask him out. He does sound like he likes you, but I have a friend who does that same thing, and hes gay lol. Sometimes people who feel close to you do those things. But it never hurts to try ;) if you really dont want to just come out and tell your friend you like him try flirting with him back, and flirting in front of her. She might like it better if you just tell her up front. If you need any more help just ask :D hope I helped ya out :D







how do u get a guyy top leave u alone??? (link)
It depends... you need to be more specific. Just tell him you dont like him and you want him to o away... sorry i cant help more







when i get older im thinking about like adopting 2 kids and having 2 kids, does anyone have any ideas on why this would be a bad idea? i want to adopt because i dont want all my kids to have the same traits as me, but then i wanna have 2 of my own because having a baby that came from you is..good, right? do you think i would favor the kids i created over the ones a adopted?? suggestions, please??! thank you~~~!!!!!! (link)
I think when you adopt them you'll end up loving them all the same. However, having your own might have you be more loving toward them. Also, adopting means you have to give them that awful "I'm not really your mother" speach... and thats never good. Ont he bright side, at least youre giving them a good home. Its al up to you and you husband/future husband. hope i helped





hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!! (link)
You're not being selfish if you dont want people coying you. You're just being normal. If you do something and people copy you, take it as a compliment. Try telling your friends to stop copying the way you do things. Also, being christian has nothing to do with it. You're probably already are a good person. Just keep "renewing" yourself. lol. hope it helps



~*~N I K K I ~*~


ok there's this boy at my school how i have liked for over a year and i know he doesn't like me

i know i don't ever have a chance w/ him. in fact..he has a GF.

but i have tried and tried to get over him and everytime i fail. please help. i want nothing more than not to need him. (link)
ummmmm..... maybe you could find someone else


OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?

thanx (link)
How about you use medicine, or get real ones.



Since I am in 8th grade, I have recently been thinking about high school and where I will be going, what courses I will be taking, etc. Right now I have a transfer to a school other than the one I am supposed to attend because I am a 'gifted' student and the school I was required to attend before I received my transfer did not have courses that would challenge me academically. While attending this school, I have made many friends of different levels of intellegence. One of my best friends is someone I never would've met if I hadn't attended this new school. She is a major part of my life and I don't want to lose her. She has helped me through some of the roughest times in my life thus far. Lately, we've been arguing and not getting along very well, but we still manage to stay friends. I really don't want to lose her. Right now, I get to see her quite frequently because we are at the same school, but next year, I'm afraid I won't be able to have this oppurtunity. She will be going to SHS and I will most likely have to go to LHS. I can most likely get another transfer, but this would majorly upset my dad because almost our entire family for the past four generations has gone to LHS. I was tlaking to my mom about it and she said my dad was really upset. Now I don't want my dad to be upset if I go to SHS but I don't want to lose my friend if I go to LHS. The only time I would be able to see her would be on weekends and at church events. She's been here for me for the past 2 years and I'm really sick of having to lose my best friend every couple of years. The people I would be attending school with at LHS are people I was friends with K-3rd grade, but I haven't seen them in almost 6 years and that is a really long time. I don't even know if they'd recognize me. I'm really lost and I just don't know what to do. I would really appreciate each and every one of your opinions and I will rate high even if you attempt to help me. Thank-you in advance! ~Brit (link)
ok i have a lot to say. lol. so here goes.

OK, you may not lose your best friend if you go to another school. I mean, if you're really close it should all work out. And you guys will still be able to see each other... im sorry i dont know how to help anymore... try tellin ur parents u REALLY wanna go to dat 1 skool


one of my friends has this boy friend n shes mad shy around him in school but not on tha phone or ne thin n they live in tha same project n this mornin she skipped tha first two periods of school n went to his house when she got back in c period she was cryin n all n i felt mad bad for her n so i went to tha bath room with her n she told me that he was all oh u wanna have sex with me n all that n she said no bcuz shes only 14 but he started kissin her neck n stuff n she ended up havin sex with him n i guess after her cherry popped he was fixin tha condom n thea was blood everywhere and tha condom ripped n now she might be pregnant n im tha only one who knos n i feel all bad for her n i kno she has to take a pregnancy test if she is but im so confused cuz her mother would kick her ass if she was pregnant but i dont kno im so confused (link)
wow shake real nice *rolls eyes*

ok listen. I think you should help her out until she knows for sure. Help her look for warning signs and give her a shoulder to cry on in case she is. Maybe being there when she takes the pregnancy test is a good idea. She made a mistake having sex so young, but it sounds like he pushed her into it. If she IS pregnant for 500 dollars she can get an abortion and her parnts never have to know about it. i hope it helps... and sorry





ok well i like this guy and i dont' know if he likes me back, well he's been flirting with me here lately and he always talks to me and stuff.
me and him used to fight all the time and then we started to be friends. when we have lunch he sits beside me , but he used to date on of my best friends, but they broke up about a month ago.they are still friends but they hardley talk to each other anymore. so i actually have have two quesitons do you think he likes me and if he does do you think that his x-girlfriend and my friend will be mad at me if i ask him out.
please help me (i rate high)
thanx***
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well it all depends. I think you should ask you're friend if she'd be cool with you dating him. If not then he's off limits, od you have to choose over him or your friend. If shes cool with it, and you like him back, you should ask him out. I mean, it wont hurt right? well unless he says no.... but if hes flirting with you he may like you back


hope i helped :D






My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.

What do you suggest I do? (link)
I think you should just set down some laws. Tell him that although he's a grown man, if hes going to be living with you guys he has to do some stuff. Give him a few "rules" that he has to abide. But dont go over it... like my school does lol. hope i helped ya!








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