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mom or dad?
OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!
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ok maybe the only reason you are getting along with your dad is becuz you dont see him much. take a trial run and spend a week or two with him just to see how you like living there. if its any better go live there.
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I would deal with her.. just give it some time, maybe a month or so and if things just dont get bettor or even get worse than they were I would consider moving in with your Dad, though just as a thought, u guyz might have a good relationship b/c u dont have to c each other 24/7, so at first things mite be a little stressing too, i dont know. good luck with whatever you choos!
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I would stay with your mom for a little bit longer if I were you, and see if it gets better at all. If you guys still don't get along, then just tell her that you need a break from staying with her for a while and that you would like to stay with your dad for a while. It might help if you sat down with her sometime, and told her how you feel about it. You should tell her how you and your dad get along, and tell her that you really wish you guys could get along like that. If she knows that you don't like fighting with her, then maybe she'll quit being so hard on you. Stay a little longer, and if things don't work out then live with your dad! I hope I helped! Bye hun! Good luck with everything! Let me know how it goes! :)
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It's all up to you and all of us can't help you make the right decision, only you can. Well since you and your mom have been fighting lately and she has been stressing you out and since you and you dad don't fight at all and you two have a great relationship, then you should just take a little break and stay at your dad's house but not actually move in with him. Also, if your dad works at different times, then you should probably just stay with your mom because trust me, she will miss you and your relationship with her will get better. Maybe she is just stressed out with something and that she takes a few things out on you? Try talking to her again and ask her why you two have been fighting. Just think about this and make a list of why you want to stay with your mom and why you want to move with your dad. You'll eventually make your decision. Also think about that you still have about 4 months of school left so maybe you should just wait until the summer and then visit your dad and live with him? Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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If he has weird hours it could screw things up for you. But if you need a break from your mom maybe you could just spend a couple of days at your dads house to see how things work out. Try talking to your dad too. Hope I helped.
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nah go stay with your dad for a bit. tell your mum that you love her u just need a break!
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i would move in with your dad for a while it'll probly be fun to be around your dad for a while and you wouldnt have much stress on your back also
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Uh, well you can do what ever you really want if you think your mom is basically annoying you, go with your dad. but DO NOT hurt your mom's feelings, either way if you tell her u want to go live with your dad instead its going to kill her, but you have needs to right? Hope i helped<3 be careful!
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okay if you love your mom then go live with your dad for a while and try something new. because to tell you the truth i fight with my mom a hell of a lot(even though i LOVe her and she LOVEs me back..lol we talk about EVERYTHING..lol its complicated) but i cant move in with my dad because i dont really concider mysaelf as having one. lol dont ask. anyways good luck hope you straighten things out! xox Ari
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You might get on really well with your Dad when you visit, but it could be different when he has to be a full-time parent instead of the 'fun guy'. But I say if you don't have to change schools or anything for this move, why not? It might help your Mum to realise how much she's stressing you out, it'll give you a break and your Dad will really like to see you! You don't have to stay for a really long visit either if it turns out bad :)
Good luck!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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i would stay with my mom it would hurt her alot and plus you dont know if your dad does things weird and different at his house plus he works weird hours and wouldnt be home alot
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well, you just dont fight with him coz you dont live with him. it'll always happen! sorry!
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