ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? SugaHigh answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:06 pm: Maybe you shud flirt back. But the honest, good answer would be to just tell your friend you like him. Maybe she'll understand. In that case, you should tell him how you feel and ask him out. He does sound like he likes you, but I have a friend who does that same thing, and hes gay lol. Sometimes people who feel close to you do those things. But it never hurts to try ;) if you really dont want to just come out and tell your friend you like him try flirting with him back, and flirting in front of her. She might like it better if you just tell her up front. If you need any more help just ask :D hope I helped ya out :D
ballerina04 answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:01 pm: Maybe you should just flirt back a little. Don't go overboard; just talk to him a lot, and stuff like that. I hope I helped. If not, just send me another question.
Thanks! Kristen
Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:00 pm: So you want him to know u like him without saying straight up that u like him?Well first ask him if he likes your best friend, and if he asks why be like oh i was just wondering, and if he says no be like is there anyone you like?keep talking like that with eye contact and maybe he'll catch on.sorry if i don't really make sense its kinda hard to answer but i hope i helped!and to let her know ask her if she would get mad if someone else liked him, and just go from there.
angieroonie answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:06 pm: you have to tell your friend you like him. if not you have to get over him. you cant have him AND keep you best friend happy. so yeah. do one of those.
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:55 pm: hmm...thats hard to answer. how about...when your and your BFF r talking about him...try to make it seem like you like him just a tiny bit..mayb have a smile on your face, or a lil one, or be like OOH yeah hes so cute! i love it when he....*something*, or just giggle alot. now when youre with him maybe you could smile and laugh alot, and tell him that you wish there were more people in the world like him. just be like, 'youre a really nice and cool person, im so glad i met you' and and crap, and maybe if you want to you could tell him you think hes really cute, but im not sure about that but you can try. sorry im not much of a help! **Good luck!!!!!! [ XoxBroKeNxoX's advice column | Ask XoxBroKeNxoX A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:22 pm: The only thing you can really do with regards to your BFF is tell her straight that you like this guy! Send her an email or say it over IM if you'd be too embarrased in person. It's only fair that she knows - it's better that she hears it from you before anything happens than she hears it from some random person who saw you guys kissing at the mall or whatever.
That sounds like flirting to me!! I'd go for it if I were you!! I know it might be really hard and embarrassing, but just be like, 'hey, wanna go see a movie sometime?' or something. (Make sure it's a scary one so he has to put his arm around you when you scared :P) Or maybe you could just try and hold his hand or something? Or even ask something like 'what's the deal with us? Do you like me, more than a friend? // Because I like you'.
I'm sorry I couldn't give anything better than that!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:14 pm: I think you shouldn't even go for him unless you want to loose a great friend. Normally she will say she is cool with you trying to go with him, but inside it's going to kill her. But if you want to give it a shot, just give him hints. Maybe wink at him or flirt back. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
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