ok there is this guy. We both liked eachother, we used to talk to each other all the time and he used to tell me all the time that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. he said that he wants to be alone with on valentines day. And so i went to my dads house to be alone with him and we were talking in my room and listening to music and sudenly my dad bursts in my room and starts swearing at him to get the fu*k out of his room. i got really upset so i left. And the guy was still talking to my dad and when he came outside by me he came over to me kissed me and said that i need to go talk to my dad because he is going crazy in there. I said no because he wont listen to me(+ he was drunk so that wouldnt help)and he said that my dad thinks that we had sex and we didnt. The guy was really mad. He looked at me in front of all my friends and said: I dont even look at you that way let alone have sex with you. Im sorry but i started to cry. why would he day he want to be with me and then say he dont what up with him? And whats up with my dad??? please help me i could use it thank you. i rate high.
Additional info, added Friday February 18 2005, 5:45 pm: the reason i was so upset when he said that in front of my friends is because they think id make a perfect couple with him and they know how much i like him. And they know how much he likes me. (he told them i guess) . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xsunshinexsmilesx answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:45 pm: It may have hurt for this guy to say that in front of your friends, but that's AWESOME!
That proves that he respects you, and that he wouldn't take advantage of you. When he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, did you consider marriage? Perhaps he really does love you, and that's why he didn't have sex with you...he wants to wait until you're truly his and he can't lose you!
CraziForRey619 answered Friday February 18 2005, 9:38 pm: I think you should ask him whether you are together with him or not. Maybe he just thought that because of your dad that he couldn't go out with you. Ask your dad about it too; try to make him see that he is a good guy (if you are going to go out with him again). Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
pretty_n_punk09 answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:07 pm: Alrighty, this is interesting. How sure are you that this guy likes you as much as you think he does? Sometimes friends like to tell you things to make you happy. But really, this guy is a jerk. Do you really want to like a guy who says he doesn't look at you that way and wouldn't have sex with you...in front of your FRIENDS?! Maybe he just wants you as a friend. Maybe you should ask him.
mizzthang91 answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:24 pm: wow that guy is a HUGE ass . sorry but if that's the way he treats you the you REALLy dont need him , you can do better!, and for your dad he probably loves you and tries to protect you, talk to him and tell him that u didnt appreciate what he has done and to please have a little more faith in you. lol good luck! hope i helped!! xox Ari [ mizzthang91's advice column | Ask mizzthang91 A Question ]
missmsk8 answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:07 pm: ooh thats hard I'd have to say if that guy acted that way to you is because he just wanted a temporary girlfriend, i dont think its because of you and for ur dad, is it a one time thing(him being drunk?) I think ur dad just is worried bout losing his daughter. [ missmsk8's advice column | Ask missmsk8 A Question ]
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