My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading.
Bananabuddy answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:29 pm: don't stop talkn to him. ur just still attached to him but he was ready to move on and he did. obviously u still had STRONG feelings for him, and he didn't kno that, but don't stop him from having a girlfriend and b mad at him. wait a little longr and youll b ready for another BF too.
lots-o-luck
ur Bananabuddy [ Bananabuddy's advice column | Ask Bananabuddy A Question ]
SugaHigh answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:18 pm: If you stop talking to him it'll only get worse. Maybe if you tell him how it feels before things get to serious it'll work out better. As for the gf thing... sorry he's off limits for now. Keep staying close, but dont ruin the relationship. If he feels the same way he'll figure it out eventually. Hopt it helps.
Teza answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:49 pm: you should still be friends with him but maybe he is just trying to move on .. and maybe you should try to. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
XXcrazy4evaXX answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:06 pm: Well you shouldn't brake the realtionship of talking with him and being friends with him cuz that is the only way u'll become closer then friends and u don't want to lost that. Hope i helped
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pretty_n_punk09 answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:02 pm: Well, you definitely wanna keep talking to him. He's your best guy friend. He's gonna feel hurt if you just stop talking to him.
Maybe he got a girlfriend to get over you because he thought you didn't like him anymore. But maybe you should try to move on, too. I mean, would you rather have him as a boyfriend again and then break up after a few months? Or would you rather have a friendship that would last years? I know how you feel, I've been in your situation. My best guy friend and I used to like each other and stuff, but he told me that advice.
Just think about it. Use this advice and pass it on to other people, because other people should know this, too. Would you rather have a boyfriend that lasts months or a friendship that lasts years? You never know, it might turn into something else.
BeautifulMadness answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:07 pm: Hiya hun,
Talking to him would be good :) Just ask him to not flaunt his girlfriend in front of you or anything like that, just until you can get over and/or used to the idea of him having another girlfriend!
NOT talking to him would be bad! He hasn't done anything wrong, so he'd get really confused. Do you really want to end a great friendship that even stood strong through a break-up just for a girl who probably won't be on the scene all that long anyway?
All you can really do is go out with your other friends, have some fun, and try and forget this guy (romantically anyway...you can still think about him in a friendly way). There is, unfortunately, no magical cure for getting over guys quickly, so just eat some chocolate and go out and see a good old funny film to cheer you up a little!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
xOobabiicakez answered Friday February 18 2005, 5:43 pm: i think you sshould talk to him and tell him how you feel and you still kind of like him and want to know if he still likes you and you dont want to change your relationship but still want to be more than friends see how he feels it might be the same [ xOobabiicakez's advice column | Ask xOobabiicakez A Question ]
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