Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 4:37 pm
one of my friends has this boy friend n shes mad shy around him in school but not on tha phone or ne thin n they live in tha same project n this mornin she skipped tha first two periods of school n went to his house when she got back in c period she was cryin n all n i felt mad bad for her n so i went to tha bath room with her n she told me that he was all oh u wanna have sex with me n all that n she said no bcuz shes only 14 but he started kissin her neck n stuff n she ended up havin sex with him n i guess after her cherry popped he was fixin tha condom n thea was blood everywhere and tha condom ripped n now she might be pregnant n im tha only one who knos n i feel all bad for her n i kno she has to take a pregnancy test if she is but im so confused cuz her mother would kick her ass if she was pregnant but i dont kno im so confused
ok listen. I think you should help her out until she knows for sure. Help her look for warning signs and give her a shoulder to cry on in case she is. Maybe being there when she takes the pregnancy test is a good idea. She made a mistake having sex so young, but it sounds like he pushed her into it. If she IS pregnant for 500 dollars she can get an abortion and her parnts never have to know about it. i hope it helps... and sorry
shake answered Thursday February 17 2005, 5:34 pm: Dont worry about it, its her problem shes an idiot and you should just stand by and watch your friend as she gets punished for her wrong doings. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Thursday February 17 2005, 5:16 pm: Her mother needs to be informed. She can help your friend figure out what's happening.
Be a strong friend right now; she's needs it. This time is confusing for her most of all. Be compassionate, and listen to her. If you need to talk, please feel free to send me a message. ♥ Kristen [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
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