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ok there's this boy at my school how i have liked for over a year and i know he doesn't like me
i know i don't ever have a chance w/ him. in fact..he has a GF.
but i have tried and tried to get over him and everytime i fail. please help. i want nothing more than not to need him.
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ummmmm..... maybe you could find someone else
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well try to find another guy instead and if that dosent work try again. gettong over a guy is hard just tell ur self i dont need him and just think how happy u will be with out him
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I have liked this one dude for a year and he treats me like CRAP and used me for school stuff and im managing to get over him. i know its super super hard because its the only think thats been on my mind for the past yr and i dont know what else to think about. You just need to focus on other things like friends or sports or schoolwork. Last year he distracted me cause i always thought of him so i got 3 D's the last semester, but this yr my grades have been raising. Just focus on something else no matter how hard it is. If you need someone to talk to then you can IM me, i can totally relate to this.
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Try telling yourself "I don't need a guy, they need me."
Getting over a guy can be hard, believe me I know. But eventually you'll move on and find someone else you like. Try looking around at the other guys you could maybe start something up with. Perhaps there's a guy that you never thought you'd want to be with until you really thought about it.
But you don't need any guy. No matter how much you like them, no matter how much you want to be with them. You won't die from lack of Mike or Ben or Jack or whatever. Heartbreak is not a terminal illness, you'll get over it, you'll find someone new. And that person is going to want to be with you, and you with him, and you'll completely forget ol' what's-his-name in time. Just give it time.
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It's really impossible to try to get over someone that you like, especially for over a year. You need to try to forget about him doing other things like hanging out with friends, joining a sports team, and other ways to not think about this guy. You probably have done or at least tried some things and they probably didn't work, right? You need to make your mind realize that this guy has a girlfriend and that you'll never get a chance with him, if he never likes you. Talk to your friends and ask them to help you; I'm sure they can somehow. It's hard getting over a guy but you will get over this guy eventually. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I know how you feel.
Maybe you should try focusing on someone else.Since he already has a gf,then theres no pint in beating yourself up over him.You should try to find other guys with the qualitys that you like and get to know them.After a while,they could turn into something more then just a friends.Good luck.
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I have been in this situation before and it sucks! I kept trying to talk to him and get to know him but nothing ever worked. So i was JUST HIS FRIEND, and that's all i could do, but somewhere on this Earth, there is a guy out there, made just for you, you just have to have patience and follow your dreams.
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Aww, its hard getting over a boy. In fact, it like imposable unless you try not to think about them as much. Just talk to your friends and make a list of all his bad things ((not good)) and tell your friends to help you!
♥ MIchelle
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