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My name is AmberI have been through a lot, a lot more than you'd think. I will answer any question you give me. You can take my advice, or just leave it alone, but DO NOT tell me it's bad advice. kay?
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I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
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don't go to your doctor, go to a free clinic or whatever those things are called these days. And just ask them not to tell your parents or anyone and they won't. well at least thats what i have heard. Hope i helped!
say you like this boy and you tell all your best friends and then your friend tells you she likes the boys cousin and she wants to go out with him.the boy your friend likes gets a girlfriend(its not your friend) so she gets mad and says i dont like him anymore. then on the phone your friend says she likes the boy you like and he likes her(even thou she told you she would never go with him he is like a brother 2 her months before that)wouldnt you be mad?? i am. what would you do?
This has happened so many times to me before just not with the boys cousin, but anyways, just like make sure your friends knows you still like him and would like upset if she went out with him. and tell him you like him, maybe the only reason he doesnt like you or isnt trying to get with you is because he thinks you dont like him? you never know. HOPE I HELPED!
my mom gave me the option of not entering high school. i really want to do that because i dont think high school is for me. i dont want a GED either.
what do i tell my friends? what will i do until im old enough to do anything (work)?
just tell your friends they won't care they will be like sweet i wish i was you. then ask your mom what she was planning on doing with you if you don't. If you don't like it, go to highschool.
This guy & I have been 'talking' for a while. we hooked up & we're basically unofficially together because I want a friendship first. Well the other night we were really close & stuff & he asked my for my friend's older sister's number. After he asked a couple times, I got the number for him thinking nothing would happen since she's 2 years older and has a bf. Well he text her all that night and he totally hit on her. The next day my friend told me and forwarded the texts.. he tried to deny it but then he came clean. He said he was sorry & that he wanted another chance & eventually my trust back. I think [not sure] I want to give him another chance because i think we could make it work & my last relationship- my ex dumped me when I lost his trust & it completely torn me apart so I have some understanding. My question is what should I tell him to do to "make it up to me"? Something that would show he really is sorry & won't do it again. I want to teach him a lesson that I don't take crap from him but not something too difficult, know where I'm going? Thanks for your help, I really appreciate it!
We're both almost 16 by the way & don't go to school together.
say your giving him another chance but like keep him guessing like, when you hang out with him for the next several times do not hit on him or hook up with him then like start to flirt and like get more and more like flirty ya know? so like he has to wait then when you finally give it to him, he likes it more. and will like you more.
Ok, im a 14/f, and i don't think im fat AT ALL, but, i would like to lose a little weight in my stomach area, i have a little fat like in the belly button area(lol sry it sounds weird) but like ok i am a totaly prep and i love wearing the tight shirts, but then again i hate it because i have that bulge and u can see my fat, my friend says im stuped because she thinks its just muscle, but i seriosuly don't think so, but does any one have any good ideas so loose some weight in the tummy area, and i also eat alot when im depressed, and lately ive been eating alot because my boyfriend is being a jerk, so any one have any ideas on what to eat, and how to loose a little weight in the tummy area?
instead of eating when your depressed go for a run or like work out instead, every girl has that fat right there, and if they don't they will get it sooner or later. do bunches of crunches everyday anyways. and like what i do, once a month for 24 hours you dont eat anything, it shrinks your stomach so you don't eat as much. but only for 24 hours at a time and ONLY once a month, if you do it anymore than that it is considered anorexicia.
Okay, so I like this guy.
He's still sorta new to the school
I wanna go out with him but nothings progressing beneath the friendship level
I know that he likes me (I'm pretty sure) and I like him back
I don't have his sn, email, phone or anything.
I don't know how to ask for any of them w/o seeming like I'm trying to stalk him or the fact that I like him.
He's popular among the boys (Lacross team) but not much among the girls. I wanna go out with him but I don't know if I should or even how.
wait it out, see if he asks you for your something first, and if he never does like if your like with him outside of school just like if he takes his phone out, ask to play with it, and if he lets you ((which he should but if he doesnt he's either a freak or thinks your a freak)) but then like first read his texts see if he says anything about you to his friends or like other girls, then like add your number in yourself. but don't rush anything, and dont get to obsessive, but if you do, don't let him know you are.
What should you with skinny jeans. shoes i mean. not shirts and stuff, but the shoes
ballet flats you can get them at either hottopic or dealiah's those are the only places i have seen them, hottopic is where i got mine!
Hey, my friend "L" is going out with "J". My other friend "K" liked J. I told J all these nice things about K. K got mad at me because he got pissed off at her and she blames it all on me. Now L, K, and J are all mad at me. I was only trying to do good. L isnt really my friend. K is really popular too. I am too, but not as popular as her. So all of K's friends who were my friends all started to hate me. This is so imbaressing because everyone thinks im obsessed with K. Im not though! I don't know what to do because everyone is telling me to stop and I did! Please help =[
Just keep telling everyone all you were trying to do is hook up your friend with the guy she likes, and if these people are really your friends. They wouldnt hate you cause of that. They are just trying to follow the more popluar girl to get on her goodside blah blah blah! They are just trying to be cool since thats what she is doing, so for now just apoligize to L J and K. If they dont forgive you then thats their problom they don't deserve you anyways!
ok.. i have an 8 year old sister & she is very developed 4 her age. if u know wht i mean.. and she has a boyfriend who is 14.. which is not so unusual cuz she always dates older guys.. well.. my parents dont know about this boyfriend of hers.. so it is even worse.. she makes out with him all the time.. adn i dont have a problem with that.. but last week she decided to have sex.. and now shes preganat! what do i do???
Well if you are 18 then you can go and get an abortion for her yourself but if you are 18 i dont know why you would be even asking this in the first place. so i am guessing your not. well that is illigil first off, and second talk to her about it, then when she is ready she can tell your parents herself, you dont really have to do anything.
ew when i was 8 i didnt even know what sex was. Thats sick.
ok.. well.. i have liked this guy for a while & i didnt know if he liked me.. well yesterday another boy i know asked me out and i said not now cuz i like someone else.. but i think hes sweet.. well this kid who ask me out really likes me and now i might like him a tiny bit but i like the other guy more.. well.. now the guy that i liked asked me out & i wanna go out with him so i said yes ..what should i do about the one that likes me?? what should i tell him??. by the way.. im only 13.. please help me!
Just don't tell him anything but if he asks something just be like well i told you i liked him more and that kinda implies i want to go out with him. But DO NOT break up with him for the other kid. you will get dissapointed.
Flight 5191 should not have crashed in Kentucky today. Where was God? And does he not love them?
God deffenitly loves them. Just remember, everything happens for a reason.
picture day is coming up. what kind of shirt should i wear. i have light skin dark hair and dark eyes. how should i do my makeup also? thank you for any help.
i think you should wear something you would normally wear, like a tshirt dont get dressed up or anything. and makeup wear a little more eyeliner then you usually would on a normal day. no masscara. and either brown eyeshadow or eyeshadow that matches your shirt or white. dont put on any spakles though. thats lame. but deffenitly wear a necklace. and dont put your hair behind your ears b4 the picture. ((it makes your ears like stick out// look a lot bigger))
ok im a cheerleader and im learnign some of my routine right now and i thought i was doing pretty good and some girls on my team said im doing wicked good too but then i was talking to one of my guy friends who is friends with the guy i like they both do football and then my guy friend i was on the phone with him hes like no affence but you kind of suck. and idk im wondering if i do. i dont want my crush to think that since hes like the best football player on the team.
what are some tips and ideas to make me a better cheerleader and to get a little skinnyer.
Ill rate really high. and give your colums to my friends.
please help xox thanks
okay well either your teammates are lying or those guys have no idea what they are talking about i am guessthing they dont know what they are talking about. cause well i am on a 1st place winning team and our bball team and fbteam still say we suck badly. so i guess they dont know what they are saying. but basicly just stretch at least twice a day for at least 20 minutes and also do crunch's ((not sit ups)) do at least 200 everyday. and if your a base and still want to be a better tumbler i suggest 50 push ups twice a day and do toe raises on the stairs for a total of 5 minutes a day. Its a lot but its all worth it in the end.
I've had my braces on for 2 days now. They kill like crazy. I'm taking tylonal, moltrin, and advil so I don't need any more medicine. What else can I do to make the pain go away? And also all I can eat right now is soup, mashed potatoes, ice cream, yougurt, pudding, spaghettios, and oatmeal. What else can I eat that's soft enough? I can't chew at all not even a banana! All hep is appreciated!
--Metal Mouth
yeah when i first got my braces on i pretty much didnt eat anything for a week then it stopped hurting but really cold or really hot stuff made it less painfull to eat and keep taking painrelievers.
is there any way you can increase your metabolism?
doing a shoulder stand for 2 minutes boosts it but you'll have to do it everyday for it to make a big impact
What is a budgie? I`ve seen like 5 questions on here asking about them!
A bird
What exactly is a tramp stamp?
Its just a tattoo on your lower back, like right above your ass.
i have played basketball for 2 years now im pretty good but not the best well now i moved and i made alot of new friends i really wanna play basketball next year but they all keep saying no dont play only popular girls play ( im not a nerd or geek, im just also as my friends say not "popular" ) should i listen to my friends or should i just try out for the team
deffenitly try out, you might even become friends with the "popular" kidss
ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
deffenitly tell your boyfriend
Okay. I was at my friends house and we took her parent's smirnoffs and drank them. Her mom found out and said that if I don't tell my parents about it then my friend's grounding will be even longer. What should i tell my parents? They are really strict about everything. Thanks
I personally would because if you dont then her mom evenutally will then you will just be in more troble by not telling them sooner