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my best friend i think she is so wrong wat do u think?
say you like this boy and you tell all your best friends and then your friend tells you she likes the boys cousin and she wants to go out with him.the boy your friend likes gets a girlfriend(its not your friend) so she gets mad and says i dont like him anymore. then on the phone your friend says she likes the boy you like and he likes her(even thou she told you she would never go with him he is like a brother 2 her months before that)wouldnt you be mad?? i am. what would you do?
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This has happened so many times to me before just not with the boys cousin, but anyways, just like make sure your friends knows you still like him and would like upset if she went out with him. and tell him you like him, maybe the only reason he doesnt like you or isnt trying to get with you is because he thinks you dont like him? you never know. HOPE I HELPED!
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i think i would be more hurt then mad. even though i would be mad. i would talk to her. calmly not accusingly. say things like "i'm kind of hurt that you like the same guy i do after you said that hes like brother to you and you said that you wouldnt ever go out with him" dont say anything like, "you said you wouldnt go out with him!! you cant do this to me i thought we were friends" or else she'll never understand what you are trying say. she might not even understand at all even if you are being reasonable. also say stuff like "I feel..." that way its also less accusing. but i guess she cant help it of she likes him. at least they arent going out.
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yeah i mean she told you she would never go out with him. but you can't get mad at her for liking him, i mean its not like shes going out with him. and its not her fault she likes him. but yeah i would still be kind of mad. just tell your friend how you honestly feel.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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